shkevin Posted January 1, 2016 Posted January 1, 2016 (edited) My girlfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago, I've since regained most of my control but still love her more than anybody. We dated for about two years, 6 months of which we were together while I was deployed. We also lived together before she had to go to a new school thats an hour south (personal circumstances). She tried to foreshadow the breakup by saying she wished I showed more affection, which is why I think we broke up. She did it through text, saying "we need to break up, we wont talk for a while, should be friends" and that she hopes I do well on my finals, this all happened while I was in the middle of moving and she was supposed to go to meet my parents (I've met hers numerous times). I went into a panic and sent two or three texts basically saying ok, but I'd like to work this out and ended up realizing it is actually over and sent her the whole I'll fight for you text. Gave myself a week and sent her the "I know that what we have is worth investing in" text and that I wont beg to get her back but I know she still loves me. Left her an email saying that I understand the breakup and it was the right thing to do and it allows me the time to deal with my life. As stated before, I know she still loves me but she will not reply to anything, the relationship, funny nonchalant text, and what not. She's an emotional girl with PTSD, but I think she thought about this breakup for a little while, probably due to lack of affection. Have I lost her forever? Edited January 1, 2016 by shkevin
ExpatInItaly Posted January 1, 2016 Posted January 1, 2016 She broke it off in a text message after two years together? Ouch. It seems strange that she would cut if off so coldly. You two must've been very close at some point, give that you lived together. My spidey sense is tinging that she met someone else.
Author shkevin Posted January 2, 2016 Author Posted January 2, 2016 It's very possible. But the reason why I don't think thats the case is because we currently live long distance, and had just gotten off the phone with a minor dispute. So she couldn't do it in person, and I doubt she wanted to call me (I'm her first serious relationship).
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