spaceunicorn Posted January 1, 2016 Posted January 1, 2016 I just really want to vent and share my recent relationship blowout I guess. Got into a dumb argument with long distance bf about 2 weeks ago, it led to him saying some very childish and petty things via text (he's in his mid 30's) and to make a long story short I have seen other red flags with his temper and told him that if he can't admit that he has a problem with how he deals with problems that this is never going to work. I tell him I can't move across the country and abandon my life here for someone that makes me feel like I have to walk on eggshells around them. We don't speak for a few days and he tells me he needs some time to respond to me, this is fair. Monday before Christmas he calls me at 11:30pm and I don't hear it because I'm dead asleep. So at 12:30am he proceeds to blow up my phone with angry texts about how he guesses I don't even want to be friends and that he has nothing to apologize for or acknowledge and everything I said was just a string of insults that I shouldn't move there because I hate everything and will be miserable in a week. The texts woke me up, I call him and tell him if he can't see how this string of mean texts is exactly what I'm talking about then this is why this would never work. All he could say was that he wasn't angry, I'm the angry one and he figured I was asleep. Ok...so you just dumped me via text in my sleep after 8 months? Sweet. I tell him that I stand by what i said about his temper/anger issues and that it was never meant as an insult and that I'm sorry he saw it that way. He reiterated that it would be a life mistake for me to move there but he wanted to remain "friends". I said that wouldn't be possible as I need to move on and he just said "you can contact me when you're ready" and had to add that he thinks I'm a great girl. No contact on either side until he texts last night and says. "Happy New Years. Be safe. Your gift hasn't shipped yet. Sorry" I have no idea if this means that he's sending me back the b-day gift I sent him in December (which he threatened to do via text right before he dumped me) or if he's sending me a belated Christmas gift. It doesn't matter I suppose, I'm not replying but it hurts nonetheless and brought me down some while I was out with my friends. Ahhh exes.........
MzLady Posted January 2, 2016 Posted January 2, 2016 What a jerk.. Save yourself further pain and frustration.. Block him.
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