LucidNightmare Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 My EX and I broke up about a month ago now. I believe it was because she felt I wasnt committed to her. We have been together for 5 years and she would always hint to me that she wanted me to propose and I told her I wanted to wait for me to get my life together 1st, and I sort of never really did. So I guess she saw that as me not caring. Also I would not be touchy and affectionate with her in public and I believe that was also part of the problem, but i was very affectionate with her when we were alone. Or with close friends. So about 2 weeks into our breakup she calls me saying shes worried about how im doing, and that she wants to know if I think its a good idea that we still talk occasionally, i told her i thought it was not a good idea and that we shouldnt talk for at least a month so we can figure out what we want and than if she feels she might want me back to contact me and if not not to contact me. But if she wants to keep me on facebook to see what im up too that she could do that. She said ok because she agreed to leave me on so she could see if i was "changing". So I began posting pictures of myself going out and having fun, going to clubs and doing things that I never usually did before, and than she goes and unfriends me. Says merry Christmas to me and i say it back than the next day blocks me. Now it is New Years eve and she has unblocked me... not sure why.. or if shes expecting something from me or what.. i also saw she has been sharing pictures on FB with quotes saying "if love fails it wasnt real" and "kiss your girl in front of guy who want her" and "its not selfish do whats best for you" Im sure shes upset that she wont have me to kiss on New Years day... and idk what these posts mean could she possibly NOT want distance? Could she possibly want me to try harder somehow to fight for her back instead of just moving on? Women are so confusing.... I want her back.. what should I do??
JustAnotherLostLove Posted January 1, 2016 Posted January 1, 2016 That's tough, and I'm not sure. Your ex is basically doing the exact same thing my ex did. It seemed that she'd spend all day on facebook posting quotes that pertain to me/us. It's been almost 4 months since she left, and she no longer post that stuff, but I still get holiday text. I suspect she's really moving on now, and the posts were a form of venting. Same pertains to your ex I suppose. It's hard to say what you should do... If it were a John Cusack movie from the late 80's, I'd say pour your heart out and do something crazy. Buuuuut, it's life. So I don't know.
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