VeveCakes Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 How annoying and immature. Hard to please people if they don't talk to you eh? My only guess based on your story would be she was mad you went for fast food and not dinner out? Did she say anything earlier that gives you a clue what it might be?
smudge21 Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 You need to ask her and if she still bottles it up (clearly something was on her mind) then there's nothing much you can do but step back and leave her with a "well if you want to talk" sort of thing. Don't close the door, but make her understand that you feel something is wrong and care enough to want her to talk to you. That whole "nothing" answer is so annoying, but until you know, it could be anything, maybe even nothing to do with you. Just speak to her or it'll eat away at you.
mrldii Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 She said "Nothing, I'm just tired." Well, IF that was the truth and she felt it was a good enough reason to remain silent during your shared time, perhaps the next time it happens, you should suggest ending the evening "so she can catch up on her rest". If it's legit, she'll appreciate you are understanding. If it's not legit or was used an excuse/tactic, well...it'll fall on deaf ears if you're not around to hear the silent treatment, huh? Good luck, OP... 1
Author Stage5Clinger Posted January 18, 2016 Author Posted January 18, 2016 How annoying and immature. Hard to please people if they don't talk to you eh? My only guess based on your story would be she was mad you went for fast food and not dinner out? Did she say anything earlier that gives you a clue what it might be? Not eating out is my only guess but it's ironic that it was her suggestion to skip it. It's also just ridiculous that I'm left guessing over something so silly and something I was willing to do especially if that's what she wanted..
Author Stage5Clinger Posted January 31, 2016 Author Posted January 31, 2016 Thinking things are coming to an end with this girl but you tell me. My last post the same girl fell totally silent for like 5 hours on a date. Last night damn near the same story except this time I took her out to dinner immediately before. She went silent at some point at the beginning of dinner, was pretty much silent the rest of the night, thrn bailrd on the next day's plans saying she was feeling sick.. I'm thinking shes just not into it qhether she has admitted that to herself or not.. I asked more than once what was wrong and she said nothing but was also totally silent. Maybe shes juat boring?
smackie9 Posted January 31, 2016 Posted January 31, 2016 Stop wondering about it and just get rid of her. Onto the next one!
Author Stage5Clinger Posted May 4, 2016 Author Posted May 4, 2016 Hey Everybody! I haven't been on here in a while.. I guess that means things have been going pretty well. Anyway, I have had this "girlfriend" since October who is really distant. She doesn't text me at all and we only hang out Friday and Saturday. When we do hang out I wind up spending a lot of money on activities b/c she is broke. I texted her today and this is the transcript. I feel like she is being short with me and evasive on what she is doing. I can't tell if I'm just being emotional or if there is something going on here. I don't think she's cheating on me but I'm getting bummed out that I don't see her much. I need more support than that but I don't know how to ask for it without seeming totally needy. What do I doooooo? Me: hey how are you? Her: Good Me: Can I come see you? Her: I'm not home. Why? Me: oh nevermind I was just going to come say hi Her: Sorry. What are you up to Me: not much crazy day at work just running a few errands what are you up to? Her: didn't you just go shopping? Me: yeah I forgot a few things Her: Oh lol Me: yeah I bought too much Her: I do that sometimes too Me: you hanging out with your friends? Her: Yea
ltjg45 Posted May 4, 2016 Posted May 4, 2016 One thing is for sure, she isn't interested in you. She is doing the same thing I would do when someone I have no interest in tries to talk to me: giving out short, one line answers. Dump her and move on.
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