harvej Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 I would like the forums feedback on blocking ex on Facebook. Immature? Healthy way to get over ex? Ex wont even say hello on the street. We have mutual friends on Facebook.I do get jabs sometimes and one is more frenemy. Thoughts?
SixxChick Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Total block. I stuggled with this too. You need to move on. There is nothing beneficial that you need to see. Nothing. Trust me. Be well, my dear.
Hoosfoos Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 The sooner, the better. No explanation. Don't delay. 1
PegNosePete Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Can you give me one good reason not to block your ex and all their friends and family? Mutual friends, only keep if they are genuinely your friends. I can't think of a single reason not to.
SixxChick Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Can you give me one good reason not to block your ex and all their friends and family? Mutual friends, only keep if they are genuinely your friends. I can't think of a single reason not to. If you can't think of a single reason not to, then don't. Otherwise, refer to the previous posts to your thread. End of story.
Chronotrgr Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 This is why I'm glad I don't use Facebook, so I don't have to make this decision, I have a hard time blocking people which is why I'm glad my ex blocked me instead.
elephantflower Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Being completely off Facebook has helped me quite a bit. I deactivated my account. Even just seeing certain friends or photos (even if they weren't of my ex) completely triggered thoughts about him. Thinking about getting back on gives me anxiety because I know I'm not ready.
Draper Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 I held off on doing it for a couple weeks because of the same reasons - I felt like it was immature or petty, but I eventually saw it's the only way to go man. You don't need to see what she's doing, all it does is cause more pain and prolong the pain you already got. I even broke down and checked it again some time later, which is of course a terrible idea so I highly recommend you do block and stick to it. So trust me, my mistakes only made it worse in the long run.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 1, 2016 Posted January 1, 2016 I would like the forums feedback on blocking ex on Facebook. Immature? Healthy way to get over ex? Ex wont even say hello on the street. We have mutual friends on Facebook.I do get jabs sometimes and one is more frenemy. Thoughts? To have ever been on Facebook is "immature". At what age/maturity does one stop compiling every iota of data and detail about oneself in the same spot while just begging for somebody to take advantage of such a clueless move? And then they blame the person who played them for a fool as if it was all somebody else's idea and dumb move in the first place. Next you add a company who basically claims rights to all of your compiled data once you put it onto their website, and a company so inept that Salman Rushdie had to physically GO TO COURT to merely be recognized on the site by his popular middle name vs. his random first name that nobody knows. Facebook is like the adult version of that game/routine where your big brother grabbed your arm and began causing that arm to repeatedly hit you in the face before asking you "why are you hitting yourself?".
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