justanotherguy1 Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Hey guys. I try to keep you all posted on what's up with my life so I don't make stupid decisions From my previous threads I told you guys bout my ex, she dumped me, she started back contact with me then hinting stuff like getn back together, then I called her out on it and she said no, thn later saying she doesn't know. So she messaged me again telling me bout what shes been up to and asking me questions bout what im up to and stuff. Was a friendly comvo really a short one but shes been messaging me more and more lately. I honestly am not stressing and im not making thos out to be more or less than it may be. I just like the advice i get here it keeps me on the straight path. It doesnt bother me or hurt me that we talked, im over her really and even tho im depressed with other things i wanna make the most of my life and be happy. The thing is though she wanted other things but me, when she broke up with me the entire year other things were more Inportabt, she never made time or anything for me. And I don't want to be friends but I can't lie when I say I don't mind trying with her again, BUT I'm also not too sure if that would be for the best. She was just my first gf and the closest person I ever had, the o ly person I could've actually talk with and stuff. I'm not starting any convo with her, she starts them and I would only consider getn back with her if I get a 180 or she says she wants to start over. For now im just gonna ignore her until she says something meaningful. Anybody got experience with this? What you think shes up to???
PegNosePete Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 People don't like to be hated. She is simply making sure you don't hate her, and being friendly. That's all. She's made it perfectly clear that she doesn't want a relationship with you so if, as you say, you don't want to be friends with her - then why are you talking to her? 1
smackie9 Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 I told you she is just keeping tabs on you. She had turned you down again, so let it go already. You need more experience with other people but you can't do that when you keep clinging onto hope to try again with her....it's time to block, delete and move on. 1
kassy Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Just message her and tell her that for you to move on its easier if you two aren't in contact. And then block her and move on with your life. 1
Author justanotherguy1 Posted December 30, 2015 Author Posted December 30, 2015 Thank you guys a lot. Great advice. What should I say when she messages me again tho. Which will most likely just be a happy new years message
kassy Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 After you message her to say you need to move on without her in your life then BLOCK HER NUMBER, delete her off social media etc etc so she should t be contacting you at all. there is a guide in the break up forum for how to go no contact
Author justanotherguy1 Posted December 31, 2015 Author Posted December 31, 2015 I will.. Its about i close this chapter in my life.
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