AdamK97 Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Hello! I will make this short and easy to understand. Me, my GF and her ex are in the same school. She dated him for 15 months and then she broke up with him. Few days later we started dating. He was very mad at her and was not really nice to her. We were in love and I was not sure whether she is over him. It has been 8 months since we started dating and she, her ex and me talked about everything and became friends. She unblocked him everywhere and so on.. but I did not like it. Stil, it is her ex. The problem starts here. She told me she wanna text him, she wanna talk to him that he is an ok guy and so on. I know she has been thinkin about him.We fought many times because of that. Guys, is it normal to think about ex and have an urge to text him??
ExpatInItaly Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Hello! I will make this short and easy to understand. Me, my GF and her ex are in the same school. She dated him for 15 months and then she broke up with him. Few days later we started dating. He was very mad at her and was not really nice to her. We were in love and I was not sure whether she is over him. It has been 8 months since we started dating and she, her ex and me talked about everything and became friends. She unblocked him everywhere and so on.. but I did not like it. Stil, it is her ex. The problem starts here. She told me she wanna text him, she wanna talk to him that he is an ok guy and so on. I know she has been thinkin about him.We fought many times because of that. Guys, is it normal to think about ex and have an urge to text him?? Only if you're not over them. Bad signs here, OP.
Glitters Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 No, it's not normal. Someone is ex for a reason !
Xiomn Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Time to man up and establish boundaries by communicating with her directly that you are not happy with her contacting her ex and if she doesn't stop then it is going to become a problem between the both of you. Are you alpha enough OP?
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