Bobbi7 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 So, I have plans to meet up with a guy from OLD this weekend, just now I noticed he update his pics. Red flag??? still keeping his damn options open?
Gaeta Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 So, I have plans to meet up with a guy from OLD this weekend, just now I noticed he update his pics. Red flag??? still keeping his damn options open? *sigh* You have not met yet so what's the problem? Now you want exclusivity before meeting? No it's not a red flag. 7
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 You're not his girlfriend. You still have your profile there as well. And you have the right to change your pics too.
xcupid Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Not a red flag. Yes, he's keeping his options open because he doesn't know you and doesn't know if there's chemistry and/or compatibility. Nothing wrong with what he's doing.
katiegrl Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 So, I have plans to meet up with a guy from OLD this weekend, just now I noticed he update his pics. Red flag??? still keeping his damn options open? Keeping his damn options open? Why shouldn't he keep his damn options open....he hasn't even met you yet?! For the love of gawd....what are you expecting? Exclusivity before even meeting? Girl, you better tone it down....or you're gonna end driving every single guy you meet or even talk to away. You actually sound mad at him? Which boggles my mind. IMO, your reaction is the red flag, not him changing his pics. Jeezus. 1
kendahke Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 So, I have plans to meet up with a guy from OLD this weekend, just now I noticed he update his pics. Red flag??? still keeping his damn options open? Why not? You haven't even met him yet. He doesn't owe you anything.
Author Bobbi7 Posted December 30, 2015 Author Posted December 30, 2015 A few years ago, I told this guy that I went out on a few dates that I had a **** buddy, he was pissed and told me to talk to him when I didn't have one...well so what? We are not exclusive- so I'm allowed to bang a guy on the side in the meantime. I also told this other guy-my date after talking for awhile that I hade a **** buddy. Both of them got all pissy and claimed they didn't feel good because if it! I'm like wth???? We are not exclusive- so why are they upset that I'm banging someone else??? How is this any diffenrent? What, I'm not allowed to have a **** buddy while dating other guys, but it's ok for a guys to update their profile pics to attract more women and get dates???? Makes no sense. Most of the guys here get all defensive if a girl dates them without commitment and she's screwing some other guy??? Double standard.
katiegrl Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 A few years ago, I told this guy that I went out on a few dates that I had a **** buddy, he was pissed and told me to talk to him when I didn't have one...well so what? We are not exclusive- so I'm allowed to bang a guy on the side in the meantime. I also told this other guy-my date after talking for awhile that I hade a **** buddy. Both of them got all pissy and claimed they didn't feel good because if it! I'm like wth???? We are not exclusive- so why are they upset that I'm banging someone else??? How is this any diffenrent? What, I'm not allowed to have a **** buddy while dating other guys, but it's ok for a guys to update their profile pics to attract more women and get dates???? Makes no sense. Most of the guys here get all defensive if a girl dates them without commitment and she's screwing some other guy??? Double standard. Bobbi.... I would think you should at least meet the guy first before you start screaming double standard. In those examples you gave, you were actually dating the guy. And screwing another guy. I don't know of anyone who would be thrilled with that arrangement, exclusive or not. Here, again, you haven't even met. Slow down.
SwordofFlame Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 A few years ago, I told this guy that I went out on a few dates that I had a **** buddy, he was pissed and told me to talk to him when I didn't have one...well so what? We are not exclusive- so I'm allowed to bang a guy on the side in the meantime. I also told this other guy-my date after talking for awhile that I hade a **** buddy. Both of them got all pissy and claimed they didn't feel good because if it! I'm like wth???? We are not exclusive- so why are they upset that I'm banging someone else??? How is this any diffenrent? What, I'm not allowed to have a **** buddy while dating other guys, but it's ok for a guys to update their profile pics to attract more women and get dates???? Makes no sense. Most of the guys here get all defensive if a girl dates them without commitment and she's screwing some other guy??? Double standard. Dating around and already having a **** buddy are two drastically different things.
losangelena Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 It's one thing to ANNOUNCE that you have a FB to someone you're on a date with, but to simply update your OLD profile photo because you happen to be trying to meet people seems, well, innocent in comparison. Why on EARTH would you announce to someone you're on a date with that you have a FB? 1
strawberryshortstack Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 A few years ago, I told this guy that I went out on a few dates that I had a **** buddy, he was pissed and told me to talk to him when I didn't have one...well so what? We are not exclusive- so I'm allowed to bang a guy on the side in the meantime. I also told this other guy-my date after talking for awhile that I hade a **** buddy. Both of them got all pissy and claimed they didn't feel good because if it! I'm like wth???? We are not exclusive- so why are they upset that I'm banging someone else??? How is this any diffenrent? What, I'm not allowed to have a **** buddy while dating other guys, but it's ok for a guys to update their profile pics to attract more women and get dates???? Makes no sense. Most of the guys here get all defensive if a girl dates them without commitment and she's screwing some other guy??? Double standard. That's not even close to being the same thing... 1
truth_seeker Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 A few years ago, I told this guy that I went out on a few dates that I had a **** buddy, he was pissed and told me to talk to him when I didn't have one...well so what? We are not exclusive- so I'm allowed to bang a guy on the side in the meantime. I also told this other guy-my date after talking for awhile that I hade a **** buddy. Both of them got all pissy and claimed they didn't feel good because if it! I'm like wth???? We are not exclusive- so why are they upset that I'm banging someone else??? How is this any diffenrent? What, I'm not allowed to have a **** buddy while dating other guys, but it's ok for a guys to update their profile pics to attract more women and get dates???? Makes no sense. Most of the guys here get all defensive if a girl dates them without commitment and she's screwing some other guy??? Double standard. wtf? How can you compare this to the guy changing his pics??? BTW, who in the hell puts it out there that they're banging a guy while on a date? I would be grossed out and leave. Do you realize you come off as low class and trashy? You don't have to tell people that. That's personal and none of their business. Wow. 3
central Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Wow, is this for real? Changing pictures is in no way even in the same universe as having a fvch buddy. Yes, you're entitled to have one if you want, but why would someone want to get involved with you if you're already screwing someone else? If you want a chance with someone, this isn't something you should disclose before meeting the new prospect. Then either end the fb arrangement or disclose it after meeting.
fitnessfan365 Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 A few years ago, I told this guy that I went out on a few dates that I had a **** buddy, he was pissed and told me to talk to him when I didn't have one...well so what? We are not exclusive- so I'm allowed to bang a guy on the side in the meantime. I also told this other guy-my date after talking for awhile that I hade a **** buddy. Both of them got all pissy and claimed they didn't feel good because if it! I'm like wth???? We are not exclusive- so why are they upset that I'm banging someone else??? How is this any diffenrent? What, I'm not allowed to have a **** buddy while dating other guys, but it's ok for a guys to update their profile pics to attract more women and get dates???? Makes no sense. Most of the guys here get all defensive if a girl dates them without commitment and she's screwing some other guy??? Double standard. Yeah sorry Bobby.. It's not the same WHATSOEVER. This is a guy you haven't even met yet versus a guy you were dating while you had a f**k buddy. Those are both established guys in your life and this guy is a complete stranger.
Gaeta Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 A few years ago, I told this guy that I went out on a few dates that I had a **** buddy, he was pissed and told me to talk to him when I didn't have one...well so what? We are not exclusive- so I'm allowed to bang a guy on the side in the meantime. I also told this other guy-my date after talking for awhile that I hade a **** buddy. Both of them got all pissy and claimed they didn't feel good because if it! I'm like wth???? We are not exclusive- so why are they upset that I'm banging someone else??? How is this any diffenrent? What, I'm not allowed to have a **** buddy while dating other guys, but it's ok for a guys to update their profile pics to attract more women and get dates???? Makes no sense. Most of the guys here get all defensive if a girl dates them without commitment and she's screwing some other guy??? Double standard. Bobbi: what do you want? Do you want a boyfriend or you just want to go around and hit as many men as you can in the crotch? If you're looking for a man and a relationship you need to stop these stupid scenarios. There is no double standards here. This story is not even close to what is going on today with this man and his picture. So what he changed his picture? Maybe he didn't like the one that was up, maybe someone made a comment on it and he wanted to change it. Maybe he's just vain and he prefers his hair on that new picture. Who knows. At this point in the game it's not important. 2
losangelena Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Bobbi: what do you want? Do you want a boyfriend or you just want to go around and hit as many men as you can in the crotch? If you're looking for a man and a relationship you need to stop these stupid scenarios. There is no double standards here. This story is not even close to what is going on today with this man and his picture. So what he changed his picture? Maybe he didn't like the one that was up, maybe someone made a comment on it and he wanted to change it. Maybe he's just vain and he prefers his hair on that new picture. Who knows. At this point in the game it's not important. Oh my god, Gaeta, this literally made me laugh out loud. My mom is looking at me like I'm crazy. 1
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