justanotherguy1 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 So I'll be blunt and quick. Ex dumped me. I went nc. She started contact again. Saying she wanted to meet up and check me and stuff. Hinting on getting back together. 3 weeks later I called her out on it because I don't like games. I said do u want to start over. She said no. Then she's saying she doesn't know. This isn't bothering me whatsoever. I dropped all contacts with her and I will not ever initiate contact with her. I just want to know who's got experience with this and what it may mean.
ExpatInItaly Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Yes, I had an ex that did this. Turns out the girl he was dating ditched him so he tried to see if my door was still open. It wasn't.
Buddhist Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 It means she's crazy, conflicted and a general pain in the arse. You might have to actually block her from your phone because she will probably pop up every few months for the rest of your natural life. These types don't ever seem to move on.
Author justanotherguy1 Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 Well the last I heard from her was for Christmas. And like I said I'm not gonna initiate any sort of contact ever. I don't want that little kid stuff with blocking and stuff. I don't understand I mean we are done. We aren't friends, we were more emotionally stable after a few months, I asked her to try again she said no, then she doesn't know. As far as I see it, I'll continue doing what I'm doing. Which is focus on myself. I think she is just really confused tbh, and she doesn't know what she wants. But im not stressing lol. Im so much better now i can deal with whatecer comes. So she can sort herself out. Im npt stressing over her. I have moved on from that. Thankfully
smackie9 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 She hates the loss of control over not being in a relationship. No worries she is just adjusting.
Author justanotherguy1 Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 I feel so much better now tho. Never knew a break up could do you this good. I mean I do miss her, I think about her alot and I did wish we could've made it work but my mentality now is so diff and strong. Both people have to want a relationship, and if that doesn't happen it can't work. I'm at a poi t where whoever wants to leave my life they can leave. Idc. Things like that dont bother me because im taking care of myself and trying to be the best i could be. And damn ot feels good, sooooo good. To have such power at a young age and me this emotionally and mentally stable Like nothing can bring me down. Feels really good. If my ex comes back, hell I'll give it a go but only if I see changes. If not. Who cares I don't need anyone
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 So I'll be blunt and quick. Ex dumped me. I went nc. She started contact again. Saying she wanted to meet up and check me and stuff. Hinting on getting back together. 3 weeks later I called her out on it because I don't like games. I said do u want to start over. She said no. Then she's saying she doesn't know. This isn't bothering me whatsoever. I dropped all contacts with her and I will not ever initiate contact with her. I just want to know who's got experience with this and what it may mean. She may be feeling lonely and bored. She wants company but at the same time she's unsure about it because she could be meeting other guys. Since she is probably not dating other guys nowadays, she's bugging you with her doubts. Keep NC alive. Move on. You're doing the right thing.
Author justanotherguy1 Posted December 30, 2015 Author Posted December 30, 2015 She may be feeling lonely and bored. She wants company but at the same time she's unsure about it because she could be meeting other guys. Since she is probably not dating other guys nowadays, she's bugging you with her doubts. Keep NC alive. Move on. You're doing the right thing. I really do feel she is a bit lonely because schools over and shes just home these days.
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