Author ilovemusic3 Posted January 6, 2016 Author Posted January 6, 2016 He didn't mention anything about seeing me again on our last date, and he wrote 1 message after he got home saying he enjoyed himself but still didn't mention doing it again. Now he has disapeared for a few days. Our first date was 3 hours and he liked me so much after that, I don't know what happened.
nadzz Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 This is so unfortunate. It is normal if you like someone, and if you felt the same way then you would probably be doing the same thing. I saw that you went on the second date, maybe now he feels like he was being too aggressive and wants to relax a bit to avoid scaring u off. I would hold back from messaging too much but maybe say you had a good time. If he simply has lost interest then you will know soon enough.
Gaeta Posted January 6, 2016 Posted January 6, 2016 He didn't mention anything about seeing me again on our last date, and he wrote 1 message after he got home saying he enjoyed himself but still didn't mention doing it again. Now he has disapeared for a few days. Our first date was 3 hours and he liked me so much after that, I don't know what happened. You had 2 dates that HE initiated. A man needs a green light once in a while. Have you said anything to indicate you'd like to see him again?
Author ilovemusic3 Posted January 7, 2016 Author Posted January 7, 2016 He messaged me when he got home that night saying that sometimes he gets shy on dates and dosen't know what to say, but that he did enjoy his time with me. So I wrote back "me too, hopefully we can do it again soon," but haven't heard anything in 4 days.
doeblin Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 He messaged me when he got home that night saying that sometimes he gets shy on dates and dosen't know what to say, but that he did enjoy his time with me. So I wrote back "me too, hopefully we can do it again soon," but haven't heard anything in 4 days. "Too keen""Not keen enough" You worry too much! 4 days go by fast when you have a life. You really did give him a green light. But you can contact him too. If you decide to wait, wait a few days more or whatever. You need to learn to be zen about things like this.
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