oregon0011 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Newly single again, and I have noticed something. On traditional dating sites, there are a few good looking women, and they are bombarded with emails.. If a woman is on 2 or 3 sites she can easily get 500 messages a day.. Now obviously this is a waste of time for the guys, and a waste of time for the good looking girl to sift through this mess.. And then the guy THEY want is often times a player nailing everything on the site.. Now, there are sites devoted to arrangements, sugar daddies etc, and there are hundreds of thousands of good looking girls on THESE sites..Basically they get paid to go on a date, and they can pick and choose who they go out with.. These sites have more successful guys and better looking girls. Most of these girls are in college, college educated, or have careers and do this for extra cash. Now we can say "prostitution has been around forever".. And I agree.. But 20 years ago a girl would have to stand on the corner, or go through some process to be hired by an escort agency, and that would be fairly rare.. NOW, girls just upload a photo and watch the offers come in..Even on traditional sites, Craigslist, or apps like Tinder, girls quickly ask "P2P"..Or have on their profile that they like "generous men". I wonder how many of these girls, once they settle down, will come clean about their past. Or how many of them will actually ever have a solid work ethic..Or how many will still bond after sex with a husband? It's all pretty sad. So it seems we have all this so called "equality", but in a way more and more women are just using the internet, somewhat discretely and easily, to trade sex for extra money..
67Chevelle Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 I've noticed a huge influx of women like this as well in the past year or so on regular dating sites. Some of them come right out and say it in their profile that they are looking for a sugar-daddy and some will use codes or phrases to get their point across like putting a bunch of $$$$$$$ in the profile headline.
Rejected Rosebud Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Online dating isn't turning girls into anything, if they want to become an escort or a sb it is probably easier now, but it's not because of online dating. It's also easier for a guy to hire a pro rather than go pick one up from the street corner. Any girl looking for a relationship whether she's amazingly hot or not isn't going to change her mind and become a prostitute just because of the dynamics of dating sites. 8
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 I think saying that more women will become escorts just because there are sites that encourage this is the same as saying more people will use drugs if we legalize them - and I don't believe it that. If I wanted to be an escort, I would. And honestly, it's not difficult for a woman to become one. You can easily become one , a classy one who only has sex with successful businessmen, you can easily hide it from your family and pretend you're the religious, innocent young lady for years and years. And I am not a hooker because this is totally against my principles. A website for sugar daddies just makes me cringe. And it is not because there's a website that encourages this kind of attitude that I will automatically become a call girl. All these girls who are looking for sugar daddies online would be looking for sugar daddies offline if these sites didn't exist. That's all. 4
FadedSign52 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 If a profile has an "income requirement" or she is looking for a guy who can "treat her like a gentlemen" I stay well clear of that profile. Its pretty obvious what she is looking for. There are several good looking women who are genuinely looking for a suitable mate though and they complain about getting lots of messages, but not many from men who are actually looking for what they are. At least when you get to your late 30's it seems.
Author oregon0011 Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 If I wanted to be an escort, I would. And honestly, it's not difficult for a woman to become one. You can easily become one , a classy one who only has sex with successful businessmen, you can easily hide it from your family and pretend you're the religious, innocent young lady for years and years. It's vastly different.. 20 years ago for a girl to be an escort she would have to have a driver, drive to some strangers house without seeing him, and the guy would have to look in the yellow pages to ask a complete stranger, who he has not seen to come over.. Now a girl just has to put a dollar sign on her dating profile.. I really do not believe the amount of women trading sex or company for money is the same as it was 20 years ago.. No way..
oberkeat Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Lol, this thread is funny to me. I don't see OLD turning some girls into escorts; I see it turning some of them into serial daters, which is something far worse than sluts-for-hire (pardon me). At least with escorts you are paying for their time, you can be sure that she will keep the date and not flake at the last minute just because her attention has been grabbed by the next profile, which is what any man who has done OLD for any length of time will tell you is routine behavior with dating sites. Serial daters are far worse than escorts imo. 1
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 It's vastly different.. 20 years ago for a girl to be an escort she would have to have a driver, drive to some strangers house without seeing him, and the guy would have to look in the yellow pages to ask a complete stranger, who he has not seen to come over.. Now a girl just has to put a dollar sign on her dating profile.. I really do not believe the amount of women trading sex or company for money is the same as it was 20 years ago.. No way.. Definitely not. She can always have sex with her clients at her place. She doesn't even have to leave her house. I think "gold diggers" have existed since forever... But everything was less evident because there wasn't internet to put everything in the spotlight . I don't think a girl decides to become a gold digger because there is a website that encourages that.... Because becoming a girl like this is not only about seducing a guy and having him pay for everything, it involves HAVING SEX with a man that you find disgusting and pathetic. And most women are not willing to do that, with or without websites that encourage such a thing. 2
Buddhist Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 So it seems we have all this so called "equality", but in a way more and more women are just using the internet, somewhat discretely and easily, to trade sex for extra money.. I'm not a fan or any online dating site much less the business arrangement ones you mentioned. Overall I think technology is disconnecting people from real relationships and channeling it into some kind of social media contest where ego is the primary goal. But at the same time I don't see this trend as having anything to do with equality, or a woman's ability to emotionally connected to her husband. That is the part where I think your logic is faulty. And lets look at this another way. For centuries men have seen it as their right to have sex with many women, leave them and then marry whomever brought him the best advantage. Whether that was beauty, a wealthy connection or prestige. So you don't think women should be able to do the same thing? Because let me guess, females are by virtue of having ovaries incapable of sowing their wild oats and then properly committing to someone, the way men are? Having a penis automatically makes you some kind of different species capable of what the rest of the species is incapable of. 2
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 I'm not a fan or any online dating site much less the business arrangement ones you mentioned. Overall I think technology is disconnecting people from real relationships and channeling it into some kind of social media contest where ego is the primary goal. But at the same time I don't see this trend as having anything to do with equality, or a woman's ability to emotionally connected to her husband. That is the part where I think your logic is faulty. And lets look at this another way. For centuries men have seen it as their right to have sex with many women, leave them and then marry whomever brought him the best advantage. Whether that was beauty, a wealthy connection or prestige. So you don't think women should be able to do the same thing? Because let me guess, females are by virtue of having ovaries incapable of sowing their wild oats and then properly committing to someone, the way men are? Having a penis automatically makes you some kind of different species capable of what the rest of the species is incapable of. I think what OP is trying to say is that perhaps internet and these websites are making women - women who could potentially become good wives and partners - become gold diggers. 2
The Way I Am Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 I've noticed a huge influx of women like this as well in the past year or so on regular dating sites. Some of them come right out and say it in their profile that they are looking for a sugar-daddy and some will use codes or phrases to get their point across like putting a bunch of $$$$$$$ in the profile headline. Are you sure they're real? Because a few years ago, I wanted to see how blatant of a gold digger a profile had to be to turn guys off. I set up a fake one and kept editing it to be more and more blatant. It got to the point where I thought it was ridiculous - basically implying she expected the guy to pay to take her on trips around the world, pay her bills, etc. But messages from interested men still kept coming in. Only one guy sent a message that my fake gold digger should be ashamed of herself. I don't think it's turning women into escorts any more than it's turning men into Johns. Maybe the women who were already like that just recently discovered how to use OLD. 2
Author oregon0011 Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 Definitely not. She can always have sex with her clients at her place. She doesn't even have to leave her house. I think "gold diggers" have existed since forever... But everything was less evident because there wasn't internet to put everything in the spotlight . I don't think a girl decides to become a gold digger because there is a website that encourages that.... Because becoming a girl like this is not only about seducing a guy and having him pay for everything, it involves HAVING SEX with a man that you find disgusting and pathetic. And most women are not willing to do that, with or without websites that encourage such a thing. Who said they find the men disgusting? I think you are adding a lot here.. I am guessing, that you are saying all the women today on sites like arrangement finders, whatsyourpriuce, sugardaddy.com, craigslist, tinder, and other traditional sites where they ask for money, 20 years ago, would have all worked for that escort agency listed in the yellow pages? lol come on..
The Way I Am Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Who said they find the men disgusting? I think you are adding a lot here.. I am guessing, that you are saying all the women today on sites like arrangement finders, whatsyourpriuce, sugardaddy.com, craigslist, tinder, and other traditional sites where they ask for money, 20 years ago, would have all worked for that escort agency listed in the yellow pages? lol come on.. In business, you generally create a product to fill a demand.
thespacey1 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 The Internet in general, is allowing people to become escorts. There's little policing and the privacy vs. security (safety) issue is so dynamic.
Author oregon0011 Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 In business, you generally create a product to fill a demand. Exactly.... Times change.. Divorce is easier now as well.. Kids have sex younger...people marry older...Why is it so hard to believe that more girls justify putting a price on a date when their friends do it? And guys are willing to pay?
FadedSign52 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Who cares. If a guy is only looking to show off a piece of eye candy and pay for it, and she is willing, they deserve each other as far as I am concerned. 3
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Who said they find the men disgusting? I think you are adding a lot here.. I am guessing, that you are saying all the women today on sites like arrangement finders, whatsyourpriuce, sugardaddy.com, craigslist, tinder, and other traditional sites where they ask for money, 20 years ago, would have all worked for that escort agency listed in the yellow pages? lol come on.. LOL of course not. They wouldn't work for a escort agency but any woman knows how to find a sugar daddy outside internet. If there wasn't internet, they would be in bars, restaurants, business meetings trying to find one. There are many women, right at this moment, looking for sugar daddies everywhere that is not the internet. Just pamper an insecure old man who is willing to pay for everything , just tell him what he wants to hear and have sex with him and he will give you the world. And you don't need any escort agency for that.
Author oregon0011 Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 Who cares. If a guy is only looking to show off a piece of eye candy and pay for it, and she is willing, they deserve each other as far as I am concerned. It's an observation that more and more young women do this to supplement their income.. These are not full time nasty prostitutes doing it for drugs.. Or high class full time call girls charging 1500 an hour.. They are your girl next door, who instead of going on traditional dates, have a very easy way to get paid for dating..
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 It's an observation that more and more young women do this to supplement their income.. These are not full time nasty prostitutes doing it for drugs.. Or high class full time call girls charging 1500 an hour.. They are your girl next door, who instead of going on traditional dates, have a very easy way to get paid for dating.. What you need to understand is that they're not doing this because there's a website for that. They're doing this because THEY ARE GOLD DIGGERS. If Internet didn't exist they would be trying to find a sugar daddy somewhere else.
Author oregon0011 Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 LOL of course not. They wouldn't work for a escort agency but any woman knows how to find a sugar daddy outside internet. If there wasn't internet, they would be in bars, restaurants, business meetings trying to find one. There are many women, right at this moment, looking for sugar daddies everywhere that is not the internet. Just pamper an insecure old man who is willing to pay for everything , just tell him what he wants to hear and have sex with him and he will give you the world. And you don't need any escort agency for that. And yes, they still do that too.. You are still using extremes, and missing the point.. These sites have regular guys with a decent income.. Good looking guys who dont have the time to fumble around begging some girl on POF.. It's not some 80 yr old guy with a 20 yr old....
Author oregon0011 Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 What you need to understand is that they're not doing this because there's a website for that. They're doing this because THEY ARE GOLD DIGGERS. If Internet didn't exist they would be trying to find a sugar daddy somewhere else. LOL, I am not playing with words... Instead of going on a POF date, they go on a date where they get paid... Ok, fine, their are more gold diggers now... Young pretty women realize they can get paid to go on a date instead of going for free...
losangelena Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Newly single again, and I have noticed something. On traditional dating sites, there are a few good looking women, and they are bombarded with emails.. If a woman is on 2 or 3 sites she can easily get 500 messages a day.. Now obviously this is a waste of time for the guys, and a waste of time for the good looking girl to sift through this mess.. And then the guy THEY want is often times a player nailing everything on the site.. Now, there are sites devoted to arrangements, sugar daddies etc, and there are hundreds of thousands of good looking girls on THESE sites..Basically they get paid to go on a date, and they can pick and choose who they go out with.. These sites have more successful guys and better looking girls. Most of these girls are in college, college educated, or have careers and do this for extra cash. Now we can say "prostitution has been around forever".. And I agree.. But 20 years ago a girl would have to stand on the corner, or go through some process to be hired by an escort agency, and that would be fairly rare.. NOW, girls just upload a photo and watch the offers come in..Even on traditional sites, Craigslist, or apps like Tinder, girls quickly ask "P2P"..Or have on their profile that they like "generous men". I wonder how many of these girls, once they settle down, will come clean about their past. Or how many of them will actually ever have a solid work ethic..Or how many will still bond after sex with a husband? It's all pretty sad. So it seems we have all this so called "equality", but in a way more and more women are just using the internet, somewhat discretely and easily, to trade sex for extra money.. Umm, to answer your question in a word: No.
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 And yes, they still do that too.. You are still using extremes, and missing the point.. These sites have regular guys with a decent income.. Good looking guys who dont have the time to fumble around begging some girl on POF.. It's not some 80 yr old guy with a 20 yr old.... Well like someone said before, if a guy is willing to pay for everything only to have a gold digger give him blow jobs everyday, why are you so concerned?? Nobody is forcing these men to create these profiles. Yes these girls are disgusting but you know what is even more disgusting?? The fact that these men could have be in healthy relationships with decent women who are not after their money but instead they decide to be with a gold digger just because of SEX. That's even more shocking. Think about that.
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 LOL, I am not playing with words... Instead of going on a POF date, they go on a date where they get paid... Ok, fine, their are more gold diggers now... Young pretty women realize they can get paid to go on a date instead of going for free... Well I will give you a counter argument - men nowadays prefer being fooled by a gold digger because of sex instead of having a healthy relationship with a nice girl. Isn't that toxic as well?
The Way I Am Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Exactly.... Times change.. Divorce is easier now as well.. Kids have sex younger...people marry older...Why is it so hard to believe that more girls justify putting a price on a date when their friends do it? And guys are willing to pay? No, you missed the point of what I was saying by filling demand. The sites were created because the demand was already there. If there wasn't a lot of that already happening, the sites wouldn't have been created. People were just using different methods before the sites existed.
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