JustAnotherLostLove Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Question. My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. We just grew stagnant, and she fell out of love. We were together for just over 3 years. However, on birthdays, holidays, and whatever else, she'll send me a text, and she literally does it at the stroke of midnight or just a little after on the day of. It almost seems that she goes out of her way to be the first to do it. Why? Does she still love me you think?
Marc878 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Nope, she's feeding you breadcrumbs. Block her and go completely dark. That way you can move on rather than waiting for her.
LilMama1097 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 As a woman I'd say she still cares about you. She wants you to be happy and okay. Not love though. If she loved you, she would be telling you she wants to make you two work and asking you to take her back.
Author JustAnotherLostLove Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 (edited) As a woman I'd say she still cares about you. She wants you to be happy and okay. Not love though. If she loved you, she would be telling you she wants to make you two work and asking you to take her back. Hard to hear, but thanks. Just when I think I'm getting over her, it all randomly comes back again. It really sucks, but I appreciate the truth none the less. I do believe you, cause it sounds like something she'd say if I asked her myself. However, she's certainly not the type to be that straight forward, she would expect me to figure it out on my own, and do something spontaneous. Assuming of course, that she did want to work it out. And I'm guessing she's doing just fine without me. Edited December 29, 2015 by JustAnotherLostLove
alicia59 Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Definitely going out of her way to text you, I'd say. I think she still cares. Do you still want her back? You'll probably have to take the initiative to rebuild the attraction and love if so.
ExtraSpice Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 I don't understand why people do that. What compels them to send a birthday or holiday message. It is not like if they didn't send one they would automatically be a bad person. So I don't know if it is guilt, breadcrumbs, or whatever. But if she wants to get back together and is trying to give you hints so you can make the move, that in itself is not good. She broke up with you so the burden of starting that conversation lies on her. No need to put yourself out there and possibly get shot down, unless there are very clear signs or you feel very strongly about it. It is just going to add to her ego.
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