wmacbride Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 No matter what a ws says to anyone else, the only one who really knows what difference an A makes in their daily life is the WS themself. I can speak to what some ws become like while they are stepping out. I don't know if it's guilt or some sort of mental gymnastics they go through to rationalize the A in their own minds, but if my own experience and the stories of many BS who post on these and other boards is any indication, an awful lot of them become downright cruel to their bs. This can be anything form gaslighting to outright verbal abuse. It's just my opinion, but I really wonder how happy a person can be with themselves if they are acting this way. 1
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