GrimaceUA Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 Please talk me off a ledge here because I'm confused and don't know what to do. Back story, I met someone online back in April and broke up in September. She was going through a divorce that was somewhat nasty, but she worked through things over the course of the summer (I happily finalized mine 1.5 years ago). She broke things up initially because of red flags should saw (this after essentially repeating back pretty much what I said) but kept things going physically with me up until around Thanksgiving. At that point she gave me the "I'm struggling to keep things together with myself and can't provide what you deserve in a relationship at this time, blah blah blah speech". I told her I would back off, but she's right I want a real comitted relationship. We both have kids and she's living with her parents right now so we've had obstacles to work though. Anyways to make a long story short, I'm on day 29 of no contact aside from some likes between us both on Facebook. I miss her and think about her every minute but I'm doing my best to move forward. I saw she reactivated her profile on the dating service we met which made me feel horrible, especially since getting the brush off it's me speech a month ago. So I viewed her knowing that she would see that and know that I see she's looking to date again. She view me for whatever reason, but I'm doing my best not to reach out to her and tell her again that my feelings haven't changed, etc.... I've used this last month to focus on myself, I've lost weight, exercised, spent time with family and my girls, etc. I feel like this has derailed me and I've been hurt/consumed the past couple of days.
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