RBLL Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Hi everyone, Small situation I'm in. I've been dating someone for a few weeks now and we keep making plans to see each other and we are basically having a great time together and he really seems to like me. My issue is, I'm afraid that if I show him a lot of interest then he'll lose interest in me because there's no challenge. I'm kind of tired of pretending I'm not really into him. What is the appropriate course of action? Continue to pretend that I don't really like him or just be honest and let the chips fall where they may? Or option #3? Too much interest? I'd be happy to get any interest. From any lady.
truth_seeker Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 Hi everyone, Small situation I'm in. I've been dating someone for a few weeks now and we keep making plans to see each other and we are basically having a great time together and he really seems to like me. My issue is, I'm afraid that if I show him a lot of interest then he'll lose interest in me because there's no challenge. I'm kind of tired of pretending I'm not really into him. What is the appropriate course of action? Continue to pretend that I don't really like him or just be honest and let the chips fall where they may? Or option #3? Don't be fake. Show the guy affection. The key is not to suffocate him.
truth_seeker Posted December 30, 2015 Posted December 30, 2015 But I do agree that women should express their interest.... just not go overboard and to allow the man to move closer to her at his own pace....and not push it. What I like is a woman not dropping dumb hints. It would be great if a woman would say hello instead of following me around, waiting me for to chase them. The only time I want to chase a woman is when our clothes are off and it's to the shower or the pool or the bed... I want 2016 to be about women taking the initiative.
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