Dodd456 Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 Long story short, Saturday night I found myself involved with a girl I would have described to be out of my league prior to that night. Spent the night at her place, and it was incredible. We had sex 4 or 5 times(even in the morning after waking up) and I was surprised by just how in sync we turned out to be sexually. Upon leaving, I mentioned how we should do this again and she was decidedly coy, only smiling and not really confirming whether or not she was game. Just after this, however, while waiting for my cab, we made out PASSIONATELY(involved her biting on my lower lip and kissing my necK) for a good 4 to 5 minutes. She was massaging my cock through my pants the whole time. Last evening, around 8 or 9 hours after getting home I sent two short vague non-clingy texts with no response. My question is, is this just a one time thing? Obviously what is confusing me is her behaivor while I waited for my cab in which she was all over me - this was far from a peck, and very much something she initiated. Normally I would have taken her evasive non-answering of my request to do it again as all I needed to hear, but man, the good-bye "kiss" in this case was so wild. What was she trying to get across?
Buddhist Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 That she knows how to get a guy off? Maybe you shouldn't send 'vague non-clingy' texts and instead straight up state what you want. If the outcome is she ignores you then it's no different to your present one, except you didn't try and evade the issue.
Xiomn Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 No contact OP unless she contacts you, she sounds like she wants the sex so she'll come running back to you if she wants it bad enough.
Author Dodd456 Posted December 28, 2015 Author Posted December 28, 2015 That she knows how to get a guy off? Maybe you shouldn't send 'vague non-clingy' texts and instead straight up state what you want. If the outcome is she ignores you then it's no different to your present one, except you didn't try and evade the issue. haha, c'mon please don't attach much to the "non-clngy" text thing. Poor choice of words, for sure. I just thought it was too quick for me to come out and tell her I wanted to see her again. Perhaps I shouldn't have texted anything, but it's done now. Anyways, I have no problems stating what I want, be it in person or over text, I was just trying to give it some space I guess.
Standard-Fare Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 What kind of texts did you send? I don't think you're going to get anywhere with vague/chatty texts - she doesn't want to join that conversation, obviously. But it sounds like you're never going to see her again unless you give it a try to ask her out. Wait a couple days to do that. You have nothing to lose by trying. If she shoots you down/doesn't respond, you have your answer: That was just a one-night stand.
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