brightstars Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 1,5 year ago i met a guy that we knew each other but hadn't ever talked. From the moment he saw me i could see that he was really interested in me. We went out and he asked me to be together but i told him no and that it wouldn't work out. I wasn't over my ex so i wasn't ready for a new relationship. I wanted to say yes but just wasn't ready. Now i find myself thinking about him. Its been months since we saw each other and we also rarely meet. I think that he doesn't see someone right now and i believe that even if a long time has passed since then he might still like me. He liked me a lot then so maybe even now he might still be interested even a bit or i hope so. Also because i told him no then i feel like he might feel uncomfortable and just have chosen to forget all about it and me. I just wasn't ready then but now that i don't think about my previous guy i feel i would like a chance with him. I like him a lot. Does it worth it trying to show him i'm interested after a long time or just forget it and move on?
preraph Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 I think it's perfectly fine to make contact, but with conditions. Don't go into it like "I'm back and ready to be a couple." Just make casual contact. Say something reminded you of him. Tell him to call you to catch up sometime. If he does that, reciprocates that move, when you talk, apologize in a quick and light manner, nothing uncomfortable. Just something like, You know, I was so absorbed and still not over my ex back then, I know it probably wasn't a whole lot of fun for you. Hopefully he'll say something back and you can indicate how nice he was and that now you're over the ex and I bet he will ask you out. Good luck. And if he doesn't for some reason, well, consider it a gift, because it will make him feel good either way.
Author brightstars Posted December 27, 2015 Author Posted December 27, 2015 preraph i thought that after 1,5 year it would be too late trying to make a move. Your post made think again about it and i might try a bit to show him i'm interested. He will understand it and he will make a move himself if he likes me.
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