singlelife Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 She only has been with 4 guys. I've known her for about 4 years and we have always dances and kissed before but I haven't seen her in over a year but I know she has been with way more than 4. I didn't know why she told me that. She has a bf who is a bartender at the bar. Anyway, she danced with me all night and then told me how he doesn't satidfy her and he only does her once a week and she needs it five days a week. She had another girl want to do her and told her she was my gf and we had a 30 min conversation regarding us having a 3 way. I told her to kiss the girl and she did but then her bf got mad and she shot the girl down. But she kept hanging around me and asked me if I eat you know what. Then kept hugging and touching and telling me how she likes hanging out but she is staying the night with her bf. Long story short she seems to be horny and I can't tell if she likes me more that just sex. We've always been cool so it doesn't matter but she is throwing a lot out there. The 4 guys thing is what made me wonder if she likes me more than normal. I just want to stay friends and maybe get it on every now and then and keep it respectful.
Ic1 Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 She has a bf. Consider the risk here... Do they have an open relationship? Even if they do, he got mad about her kissing a girl. Sounds like he could get irate about her sleeping with another guy.
Author singlelife Posted December 27, 2015 Author Posted December 27, 2015 She has a bf. Consider the risk here... Do they have an open relationship? Even if they do, he got mad about her kissing a girl. Sounds like he could get irate about her sleeping with another guy. Yeah lol. And I'm friendly with the guy. But he is not the violent type. There is like 0 threat of getting hurt. So I don't think he knew she was saying that stuff to me because we've been friends for so long. And I told her she needed to chill at first then she kept initiating the conversation. So I kept it that way once she wouldn't stop it from that direction. But my questionis does it seem like she is trying to start up something?
Author singlelife Posted December 27, 2015 Author Posted December 27, 2015 Maybe she is shopping for a new bf. I ain't a candidate.
bluefeather Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 sounds like she just wants sex. a harmless person can snap any time, and even if they can't fight, can still use a gun, or have a group of friends jump you one day.
ExpatInItaly Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 She likes the attention, and sounds quite immature. But keep in mind she still isn't single so it's pretty clear she still likes her boyfriend more than she likes you. If you're friendly with her boyfriend, why would you consider hooking up with his girlfriend? You like being the side-piece?
Ic1 Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 Yeah lol. And I'm friendly with the guy. But he is not the violent type. There is like 0 threat of getting hurt. So I don't think he knew she was saying that stuff to me because we've been friends for so long. And I told her she needed to chill at first then she kept initiating the conversation. So I kept it that way once she wouldn't stop it from that direction. But my questionis does it seem like she is trying to start up something? You obviously don't know this guy well, and I'm not talking just your RPG risk of loosing HP. It's being a loser in context. You'll lose EXP and people will think you're a lower LVL than them. (Maybe you will be) She is starting something that will inevitably end in a way you don't want.
oberkeat Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 (edited) Obviously she wants sex. Sounds like her man is unable or unwilling to give her what she needs when it comes to the bedroom. That's his problem, not yours. I think you should invite her over to your place, and have wild sex with her, while continuing to date other women. That is, if you're not worried about her man finding out and getting violent with you or her. Edited December 27, 2015 by oberkeat
Author singlelife Posted December 28, 2015 Author Posted December 28, 2015 Obviously she wants sex. Sounds like her man is unable or unwilling to give her what she needs when it comes to the bedroom. That's his problem, not yours. I think you should invite her over to your place, and have wild sex with her, while continuing to date other women. That is, if you're not worried about her man finding out and getting violent with you or her. i took it as she wants sex as well.
Author singlelife Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 You obviously don't know this guy well, and I'm not talking just your RPG risk of loosing HP. It's being a loser in context. You'll lose EXP and people will think you're a lower LVL than them. (Maybe you will be) She is starting something that will inevitably end in a way you don't want. Nothing may ever even happen.
Buddhist Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 Do you really want a woman who gets around a bar, asking her bf's social circle to eat her out?
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 She only has been with 4 guys. I've known her for about 4 years and we have always dances and kissed before but I haven't seen her in over a year but I know she has been with way more than 4. I didn't know why she told me that. She has a bf who is a bartender at the bar. Anyway, she danced with me all night and then told me how he doesn't satidfy her and he only does her once a week and she needs it five days a week. She had another girl want to do her and told her she was my gf and we had a 30 min conversation regarding us having a 3 way. I told her to kiss the girl and she did but then her bf got mad and she shot the girl down. But she kept hanging around me and asked me if I eat you know what. Then kept hugging and touching and telling me how she likes hanging out but she is staying the night with her bf. Long story short she seems to be horny and I can't tell if she likes me more that just sex. We've always been cool so it doesn't matter but she is throwing a lot out there. The 4 guys thing is what made me wonder if she likes me more than normal. I just want to stay friends and maybe get it on every now and then and keep it respectful. So you're trying to have something meaningful with a girl who is not only willing to cheat on her boyfriend in front of him, but also kiss a girl in front of him and also ask a guy to eat her p**** right after she meets him??? Yeah... some men like sluts.
Heracles Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 She has a bf who is a bartender at the bar. Anyway, she danced with me all night and then told me how he doesn't satidfy her and he only does her once a week and she needs it five days a week. She had another girl want to do her and told her she was my gf and we had a 30 min conversation regarding us having a 3 way. I told her to kiss the girl and she did but then her bf got mad and she shot the girl down. But she kept hanging around me and asked me if I eat you know what. Then kept hugging and touching and telling me how she likes hanging out but she is staying the night with her bf. Long story short she seems to be horny and I can't tell if she likes me more that just sex. We've always been cool so it doesn't matter but she is throwing a lot out there. The 4 guys thing is what made me wonder if she likes me more than normal. I just want to stay friends and maybe get it on every now and then and keep it respectful. She only has been with 4 guys. I've known her for about 4 years and we have always dances and kissed before but I haven't seen her in over a year but I know she has been with way more than 4. I didn't know why she told me that. It could be that she is grooming you for a relationship in the future. I bet it triggered the good girl instinct in you. She doesn't mind kissing you and possibly have a 3-way but deep down (while she has a boyfriend who is present at the bar), she is a good girl. right? But if she told you she f_u_c_k_ed 50 guys, I am certain you would think differently. It's funny how a single sentence can alter a man's behavior and get him to believe in all sorts of fantasies. Another possibility is that she wants to have sex with you but she doesn't want you to think of her a s_l_u_t. She had another girl want to do her and told her she was my gf and we had a 30 min conversation regarding us having a 3 way. I told her to kiss the girl and she did but then her bf got mad and she shot the girl down. But she kept hanging around me and asked me if I eat you know what. Then kept hugging and touching and telling me how she likes hanging out but she is staying the night with her bf. You guys seem to do a whole lot of talking with no action. You prefer mental masturbation to actual sex? Something in the back of mind tells me that she is a tease/playing you for attention and that when you finally decide to get things in motion for the actual sex, she will start deflecting. Long story short she seems to be horny and I can't tell if she likes me more that just sex. We've always been cool so it doesn't matter but she is throwing a lot out there. The 4 guys thing is what made me wonder if she likes me more than normal. I just want to stay friends and maybe get it on every now and then and keep it respectful. Why does that matter? Do you want more than sex? What you want? Do you have the faintest idea about what is it that you really want?
Author singlelife Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 It could be that she is grooming you for a relationship in the future. I bet it triggered the good girl instinct in you. She doesn't mind kissing you and possibly have a 3-way but deep down (while she has a boyfriend who is present at the bar), she is a good girl. right? But if she told you she f_u_c_k_ed 50 guys, I am certain you would think differently. It's funny how a single sentence can alter a man's behavior and get him to believe in all sorts of fantasies. Another possibility is that she wants to have sex with you but she doesn't want you to think of her a s_l_u_t. You guys seem to do a whole lot of talking with no action. You prefer mental masturbation to actual sex? Something in the back of mind tells me that she is a tease/playing you for attention and that when you finally decide to get things in motion for the actual sex, she will start deflecting. Why does that matter? Do you want more than sex? What you want? Do you have the faintest idea about what is it that you really want? Sex n friends
MoreAmore Posted December 29, 2015 Posted December 29, 2015 i'm not sure it matters why she told you that - though I'm sure it's because she doesn't want you to look down on her.... But, what you can see from her actions is that even if that IS true, and she has thus far slept with four guys, she is dishonest. Dishonesty would put you at a million times more risk of disease sleeping with this girl than if she had been with way more but was honest and you could believe she protected herself. You know you can't believe anything this girl says because a liar is a liar. She is cheating on her boyfriend. If you sleep with her, use protection. Including for oral. Though, she's in a relationship so the ethical thing would be to stay far away.
Author singlelife Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 i'm not sure it matters why she told you that - though I'm sure it's because she doesn't want you to look down on her.... But, what you can see from her actions is that even if that IS true, and she has thus far slept with four guys, she is dishonest. Dishonesty would put you at a million times more risk of disease sleeping with this girl than if she had been with way more but was honest and you could believe she protected herself. You know you can't believe anything this girl says because a liar is a liar. She is cheating on her boyfriend. If you sleep with her, use protection. Including for oral. Though, she's in a relationship so the ethical thing would be to stay far away. you got a point.
Author singlelife Posted December 29, 2015 Author Posted December 29, 2015 Do you really want a woman who gets around a bar, asking her bf's social circle to eat her out? It's just sex. Not a relationship.
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