maineman24 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Please hang on while i try to explain the situation, it may be a read, but appreciate the help.. So i started dating a girl that i met in May this year, and she had been about a month out of a 3 year relationship. We started to date and we both agreed nothing too serious at the time, but things just began to turn hot and heavy and we were hanging out everyday and night and before you know it she said she wanted to be in a relationship with me and loved me (she said i love you first). She had told me that she cheated on her ex because of things that went wrong and how she was treated in the past relationship and she felt so much regret from it and went to counceling and was able to move forward with it. Throughout our relationship i treated this girl like gold, I am a ladies man myself, and do not have trouble with them and have dated all kinds of pretty women. So when I'm in something serious, I'm all in. I was a great boyfriend and no one else would say differently. Fast forward to now, we have been in a Long Distance Relationship for the past 3 months because of my job but its not a permanent thing, we dated for 8 months and she had said she was being depressed and stressed out with her life the last couple weeks. She wasn't a happy person, but i continued to reciprocate love and treated her right and wasn't on her case all the time, gave her space when she needed it. But she recently just broke up with me saying that she didn't feel like she could handle a relationship right now, her head was in a million places, she couldn't explain it or some stuff like that. She said she "needed" her space, and that she wasnt trying to do this to go chasing after new people, she was unhappy and she didnt want to hurt my happiness or future.. So i respected that and coordialy said well it was nice and had fun and wish you the best. Two weeks later I am home for christmas break, and we had barely spoken, i was sort of ignoring her NC and what not, but someone sends me an Instagram pic of her and her ex boyfriend skating together somewhere which was posted 50 min ago. Her ex boyfriend was psycho, throughout the first month or two he was harassing her texting her everyday crazy things like he wants to kill himself and how could he do this to her and all that same old ****. But he also went to her parents house crying, and went into her car and shredded a bunch of art portfolio things she had to do for school. So he was crazy... It took her only two weeks to hang with him again. But now, she is texting me randomly and wanting me to not hate her and little things like "i wish you would respond" "can you please not hate me" and she wished me Merry Christmas and i didn't reply... What is going on, why would she dump me to figure her **** out, but then go back to a crazy person! and still have the nerve to message me??? Do I let her go or do I hang around??
Blanco Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Pretty classic case of rebounding here. Move along. 1
Marc878 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Apparently she's as crazy as he is. Stay dark and above all block her. You don't want this in your life.
Author maineman24 Posted December 26, 2015 Author Posted December 26, 2015 Yeah he would call her all the time, text her ridiculous things, and she would show me them and then she blocked him and all that stuff.. i thought she thought he was crazy and would never speak to him again? Is there really an 8 month long rebound? and so i should keep NC w/ her and move forward 1
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