HeadinHeart Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 This is a different ex from post from a year ago. I'm 21 years old, and shes 19 years old. We dated throughout highschool, broke up mutually because at the time distance wasn't something we could do as I was graduating highschool, and she was going to be a junior. We're eachothers first everything. I always still loved her the same, and I regretted the breakup right after. We didn't really talk for 2 years, we both we're in year+ long relationships and those ended. One day she messaged me randomly, and it felt like a relief to hear from her again. So we've been talking since April 2015, and we hung out quite a bit until she left/moved premaritally or college a few states away in August. We both talked about how we never got over each other, and always missed the other. But she tells me she likes me a lot, she told me a few weeks ago she's always liked me, and wants to be with me, and plans on coming back to our state. But right now she doesn't want a relationship, and likes being single. I completely respect her decision, its her choice and whatever she decides is completely up to her. I wouldn't ever argue about it with her. Shes not a great texter, as she occasionally simply reads my texts in the middle of a convo and doesn't reply for a long time, sometimes days. She just says busy and doesn't like texting/having her phone out. So a week ago I got a notification - your phone contact ---- is now on twitter! and it was her. I just thought to myself oh wow she finally made a twitter, so I sent a friend request the next day. I forgot until today so I just now opened twitter and she had me blocked. I wasn't upset just a bit bothered because blocking? And because shes been acting strange lately. I shouldn't have texted her asking her why she did but I did. Me: I was just curious why you blocked me on twitter? her: yes me: what why? her: bc i dont follow anyone from home except chloe (her friend here im also friends with) her: its private. me: okay, it just doesn't make sense to block me her: its mostly for my friends up in college me: I'm not angry, I was really just curious thanks her: why tf do you care if I blocked you, its such a little thing me: I honestly don't care, I was just curious her: than why call me out on it? me: I was just trying to make sense of you her: why would i want to make sense now i haven't made sense my whole life. I don't make sense haven't you figured that out yet. I don't want to make sense. her: goodnight. I know I shouldn't have probably called her out on something small, but just her reply "i dont follow anyone from home except Chloe, its private." Just makes me feel bad. any suggestions? I wasn't trying to be mean, or come off clingy.
Marco Valerio Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 by what you've written, I would say she's hiding something or wants to in the near future. She's given you a nonsense response.
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