nelly011 Posted June 2, 2005 Posted June 2, 2005 I met this girl at my college about 3 months ago. We didn't talk for like a week or so and then we met up at a bar. We've hooked up and what not many times. Right before we left to go home for the summer we started talking about a relationship. We decided to see what happens and we hung out once or twice since we've been back and when we're apart we miss each other alot. But since then her attitude has changed towards me alot. Well the other day she tells me that one of her "ex B/f's" from Brazil where she lived for 4yrs who she dated for 3yrs and was on a "break" from is coming to visit for a few weeks. She asked me what I wanted from her and I told her that we should just be friends cuz I didn't want to complicate thing anymore in her life. Well when i told her we should just be friends for now she got mad and called me confusing. Now shes mad at me and won't return my calls. Did I honestly do something wrong?
Lilyann Posted June 2, 2005 Posted June 2, 2005 You should have told her what was on your mind. She might have been wanting you to set up the guidelines for the relationship. How long has it been since you told her this?
Author nelly011 Posted June 3, 2005 Author Posted June 3, 2005 This just happened the other night. I was only trying to protect myself cuz I know shes gunna run back to her ex when he comes to visit. Also she told me flat out that she didn't want to do a long distance relationship even though were only an hour away from each other and it would only be for 3 months since we go back to college in Aug
noname Posted June 3, 2005 Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by nelly011 This just happened the other night. I was only trying to protect myself cuz I know shes gunna run back to her ex when he comes to visit. Also she told me flat out that she didn't want to do a long distance relationship even though were only an hour away from each other and it would only be for 3 months since we go back to college in Aug protect yourself from what? how do you know that? tell the girl how you feel. tell her that what you said was you making assumtions and trying to protect yourself. and let whatever happens happen naturally...
Merin Posted June 3, 2005 Posted June 3, 2005 She's mad because essentially she was giving you the opportunity to be with her in a relationship BEFORE this other Guy came back around... you didn't say what she wanted to hear which is "I don't want you to be with anyone else" instead she got "Lets be friends" so now she feels silly and angry...
Author nelly011 Posted June 3, 2005 Author Posted June 3, 2005 I was the one that told her I wanted to start a relationship with her. She said she didn't want to b/c we live to far away from each other. So I took that as O she doesn't want to be with me right now. So I said ok then lets just be friends for now.
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