Xttnx Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 eNotAlone - Powered by vBulletin PLZ HELP is he actually interested in me?! Thread: PLZ HELP is he actually interested in me?! Reply to Thread Subscribe to this Thread… Tags: None xttnx said: Today 08:28 AM PLZ HELP is he actually interested in me?! Ok this guy and I have started talking a week ago (mutual friends and similar interests, but we've never met in person). I started getting interested in him so I pushed for meeting up in person but he said it sounded like I wanted him to take me out on a date. So I later told him I'm pretty interested in him, but he told me I should know that he's not looking for a relationship right now. Plus he'd feel bad because he's not innocent nor conservative like I am. We still decided to hangout as friends. BUT YESTERDAY NIGHT AROUND 12-1AM we were texting and he was texting me while driving (only at stop lights though). On his way home from a night out. He then told me he just drove by my neighborhood. Then when he got home asked "what are you doing tonight" I told him I'm just sleeping and he said "Kinda wanna have someone over but once I turn a movie on I might just knock out" Me: Ahh I see. Well just watch a movie and sleep then!! Him: I'm too tired to be in the basement by myself lol bed is nicer upstairs at this hour Me: Watch a movie on your phone in your bed then Him: Haha oh what a Job that issss Me: Only for lazy ppl Him: Or tired people Ok now I'm confused. He practically told me he wasn't interested in me a couple days ago and he knows how innocent I am so I know he wouldn't have wanted sex with me. But does this mean he's actually interested in me? Can just a guy and girl who haven't met before simply hangout at 1AM alone watching a movie with the guy having no interest in the girl whatsoever?
angel.eyes Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 He's not interested in a relationship with you or even casually dating you. But if he's horny in the middle of the night and has no other prospects, he'll bang you if you come over to his. Surely, you can do better than this! Find someone else to crush on.
Amalyn Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 He's texting you these things because he's lonely/horny and knows you are into him. He figures you'd be an easy score. He told you he doesn't want to have a relationship and you should definitely listen to him. He's looking for a hook up. Unless this is what you want, go for it. But it sounds like you want a relationship.
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