Quokka Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Okay so, this girl and I met on social media, we have mutual friends. She asked me hang out with her and her friends. This has been happening for about a week. In the beginning, she was flirty with a lot of people but always showed me more interest. We ended up fooling around and doing everything except sex(people were in the room asleep). We continue to hangout for the next week, drinking and going to each others houses. She still is flirty with other dudes but always ends up in a bedroom with me. I take her out on a date even though we both didn't say it was and it went well. Conversation was okay I suppose. Could've been better. Last night we hung out. Cept things were a bit off compared to her usual behavior with me. When I picked her up she was telling me all of her family troubles and going on rants about it. I listened and tried to help her as much as I could. We get to my buddies house and start drinking. I'm noticing she's not sitting as close to me as usual. I start to touch her, she lets me until I get to her chest which she pushes away my hand. As the drinks kept coming she got more and more flirty and started allowing me to touch her more. Eventually she got sick(I told her to stop drinking she had enough but would not listen to me) I ended up taking care of her and driving her home. I made sure she was okay before leaving. She texts me this morning, we talk all day, until I ask her if she wanted to hangout tonight. She replied with "no I'm hanging out with my friend blank tonight" I said oh okay and she said "yeah" last message of the day. Now, it's night, I've seen her on snapchats I don't know what she's up to but it's obvious she blew me off. I never really intended to like this girl in the beginning because of how flirty she is with other dudes. It just irked me. But as time progressed and we started getting to know each other I started to like her. (****ing pissed about it too). Some reasons why she is pulled this on me might be because a girl who likes me called me when we were hanging out and I stepped away from the crowd to talk to her. I came back and she was so jealous like "who was that" " what's she say" "what'd you say" "what'd she say after that" I told her not to worry about her because I don't care about that girl. She said I don't care I'm not jealous. Then she left my house soon after. So that could be a reason or the fact I took her out to eat abit too early. I mean it was the first time I had money in awhile and I wanted to go anyway so it was like me inviting her along. Basically I need to know what my course of action is considering she blew me off for who knows, probably some dude honestly. In the morning I don't know if she'll text me but she has hit up my cell every day since we met. Tips/opinions on this type of behavior?
Author Quokka Posted December 26, 2015 Author Posted December 26, 2015 really would appreciate a reply.
loveiswar101 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Do your own thing for a while, don't be so available! If she really likes you she'll let you know. Make plans, if she contacts you she misses out. It's not being mean it just shows you have a life. When she does contact and she will just be yourself, don't chase buddy it's a no no.
Snakechammah Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 My advice would be... if you're trying to get to know someone, like really get to know someone, don't drink too much. And preferably not in a group setting. One on one dates are so much better. Since she blew you off (who knows out of jealousy/petty games, or genuine disinterest), please move on. There's always other fishes in the sea that do not flirt so openly with every guy they see.
Author Quokka Posted December 26, 2015 Author Posted December 26, 2015 My advice would be... if you're trying to get to know someone, like really get to know someone, don't drink too much. And preferably not in a group setting. One on one dates are so much better. Since she blew you off (who knows out of jealousy/petty games, or genuine disinterest), please move on. There's always other fishes in the sea that do not flirt so openly with every guy they see. She texted me this morning. Do I even reply?
Author Quokka Posted December 26, 2015 Author Posted December 26, 2015 Now she us texting me asking if I am mad at her. What do I do
Snakechammah Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 To be honest, I think you can do better. Find someone who doesn't drink too much and has healthier boundaries. Someone who doesn't feed on ego being stroked and who does not seek validation from any Tom, Dick or Harry. You know you deserve better!
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