Author blueberrymuffin Posted December 28, 2015 Author Posted December 28, 2015 I just want to caution the OP about staying with a non intense connection. ..... I've tried what the OP has tried; I have bypassed the amazing chemistry and "we are meant to be" feelings and had wonderful boyfriends who adored me and were safe and dependable. And I left them all. I couldn't help but feel that something was just "missing " whenever Iwould encounter a deep, intense connection. I was personally a lot happier single than without the soul mate connection. My goal was to make the OP think long and hard before she gives up the euphoria and Chemistry that comes with a soul connection. There are so many people who come on these boards, unhappy and wondering whether or not to leave their "non love of their life " relationship, once they meet a soul mate. The Op seems to know and understand that most people don't end up with a soul mate and she seems thrilled with her non intense relationship. I was just ensuring the OP wasn't like me. I wish I knew what I knew now and didn't break those poor non soul mate guys hearts. I wish I knew that I was happier alone than with a non soul mate. Leigh thanks for the comments. To be honest I may not have that soul mate connection with my boyfriend but looking back at me as a person with this other guy I am so much happier now. Linking yourself with someone else to that extent messes with your mind. Knowing I can do my own thing and he does his. We don't have to share everything, hobbies, deep conversations etc. That it's so uncomplicated and that he's easy to read is great. When he says something he means it, no hidden meanings. It makes it easier to be me. 1
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