Harradin Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 Hi guys and Merry Christmas! About a month and a half ago, I met a girl on a night out and went to hers, afterwards we got talking and things progressed to the point where we're seeing each other but its getting to the stage where an exclusivity talk is needed. We both go to the same university, however she's in her first year and I'm in my final year. As she is in her first year, everything will be new for her and she'll have 2-3 years left (dependent on whether she does a placement year) whereas I finish in May. I do like her a lot and I'm starting to get feelings for her, however I'm trying to be realistic in the fact that our lives will be very different from May onwards. I'm not sure what I want to do when I graduate so I could be anywhere, but when we're not at university we live about an hour's drive apart. Do I end this before it gets too serious, or should I pursue a relationship with her?
GR4 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 Hmmm tough one. I'd say live for the moment. She might end up being the girl of your dreams. If it doesn't work out it doesn't work out. On the flip side you could argue by ending it now you could be saving yourself from a broken heart further down the road.
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