rdons1 Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 So I was the dumper in this case. I have been in a relationship with a girl who i from my hometown..but goes to school in Charlotte, NC (were from New Jersey). She is so good to me and I wish I could be in love with her but lately I just genuinely don't know if I want to be with her. We broke up a couple days ago after she demanded I give her a yes or no on whether I actually wanted to be with her after weeks of me being distant . I could not give her a straight answer so I did not think it was fair to her so I ended it. I wish I could just want to be with her but I just don't know. Maybe its just the end of the honeymoon phase or maybe we are just not meant to be. I'm hoping that with time apart I can start to get those feelings back. Is it possible?
Marc878 Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 Probably not. This happens especially when you're young. You did the right thing in not stringing her along. Go dark, total no contact and move on with your life and let her do the same. Contacting her in anyway will only hurt her more.
Captivating Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 Hi, The honeymoon phase always ends in every relationship this is when a lot of young people breaks it off. Although they could make it work understanding relationship dynamics. Instead of a breakup the other option is that it becomes a deeper, calmer connection - LOVE- between the couple. It would be nice of you if you could communicate this to her in an e-mail what you feel exactly so she would understand what happened. Tell her that she is great girlfriend but you are inexperienced with the relationship dynamics and you guys will figure things out soon. Think it through what you want. Do you love her, do you see a future with her?
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