Author Reitteg813 Posted December 28, 2015 Author Posted December 28, 2015 So from what I've seen, doesn't seem like there's a new guy. And I figured that for a few reasons. One, she's so busy she just doesn't have much time to have a social life and she does not drink, doesn't party, so isn't out meeting guys every weekend, and she seems pretty inexperienced. Two, I know this sounds immature and stupid, but she lists on snapchat and a lot and every single one is with her best friend who came home from college for winter break. Makes me wonder if she was just lonely before, stressed out with school, so wanted someone to give her attention and be with, but now that she's on winter break, and her best friends home, she's just in a completely different mood and emotions aren't the same. Also makes me wonder if her friend told her something. It's not so much that I really liked her, j did like her, but since it was only a bit over a month of hanging out there were no serious feelings for her. I'm mainly looking into this just out of curiosity, not so much like "omg what went wrong, why, how can I get her back" nah lol
hippychick3 Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 So from what I've seen, doesn't seem like there's a new guy. And I figured that for a few reasons. One, she's so busy she just doesn't have much time to have a social life and she does not drink, doesn't party, so isn't out meeting guys every weekend, and she seems pretty inexperienced. Two, I know this sounds immature and stupid, but she lists on snapchat and a lot and every single one is with her best friend who came home from college for winter break. Makes me wonder if she was just lonely before, stressed out with school, so wanted someone to give her attention and be with, but now that she's on winter break, and her best friends home, she's just in a completely different mood and emotions aren't the same. Also makes me wonder if her friend told her something. It's not so much that I really liked her, j did like her, but since it was only a bit over a month of hanging out there were no serious feelings for her. I'm mainly looking into this just out of curiosity, not so much like "omg what went wrong, why, how can I get her back" nah lol She doesn't need a social life to get on Tinder and swipe. But, you may never know if it was another guy or not. At this point, it's just healthy to move on and not dwell on it anymore. If she's only 19, she's not a good candidate for a long term relationship (if that's what you were looking for with her). Regardless, spend your energy on people who won't flake out on you
BC1980 Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 Well, congrats, you've been ghosted on. It happens to all of us at some point.
Author Reitteg813 Posted December 28, 2015 Author Posted December 28, 2015 (edited) She doesn't need a social life to get on Tinder and swipe. But, you may never know if it was another guy or not. At this point, it's just healthy to move on and not dwell on it anymore. If she's only 19, she's not a good candidate for a long term relationship (if that's what you were looking for with her). Regardless, spend your energy on people who won't flake out on you Haha true, but she hasn't followed any new single guys and hasnt had any follow her on social media ever since it happened. And yeah I actually have moved on fairly well, actually already have another date set up. this is more out of extreme curiosity since I've never had something like this happen so sudden, it's not so much like I want her back, cause she was one of the least attractive women I've been with, she was attractive, but not like I'm used to. And I didn't like the career path she's taking anyways, extremely ****ty pay and long horrible hours, she was mainly just a good temporary thing. But I really do think it was out of pure loneliness and just wanting to have some one to cuddle up with and hang out and be there for her while she was stressed out with so much school work and two jobs, and training for another job. now that her best friend is home from college, and she's done with finals and is on winter break, she's just in a different emotional state. Everything she's been posting has been with them two together. It'll be interesting to see what happens when her friend goes back to school and she's back in school herself Edited December 28, 2015 by Reitteg813
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