Ryan_XD Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 (edited) After my ex decided to split up with me back in May after being together for almost 4 years, I have been struggling to get her off my mind, we haven't spoke at all until this week when she contacted me, read more about it here: Contact's me after 7 months Bumped into my ex after 7 months Anyway, I've finally decided it's time to stop thinking about her and concentrate on my own life and my family. I admit that I kind of got my hopes up this week after she spoke to me and made contact, however today she's posting pictures of her and the boyfriend and it was either her just dropping breadcrumbs or just a chat... It kind of hit me today, that why should I care so much about someone, who thinks so little of me? To split up with me on my birthday, move on so quickly and then only come crawling back to me and speaking to me as soon as she finds out I'm actually quite successful and she was going through a rough patch with her boyfriend. I'm not going to be that person, I am NOT a last resort and I deserve better. I need to focus on my career, concentrate on my life and finally learn to play the guitar that's gathering dust in the corner of the room!! Happy holidays to you all, have a great day with loved ones!! x Edited December 25, 2015 by Ryan_XD 1
Seth0194 Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 Good for you Ryan, as you said you are not a last resort and everyone deserves to be happy. It took me several months to deal with my break up but life is great and I have grown so much from it. I hope you do learn to play the guitar, I always wanted to learn to play the bass and 2016 might be that year. Take care. 1
NewPerspective93 Posted December 26, 2015 Posted December 26, 2015 You should've started focusing on yourself/career/family a long time ago, but good on realizing that now. Everything you work on (career, family, hobbies) will always be there because you work on it and because you choose to. A relationship on the other hand, could end at a moment's notice without you even knowing about it. You could place a lot of effort on the relationship only to realize the other party only feels a fraction of what you feel, and even then, the other party will just call it quits regardless of how you feel. You will always be stuck with yourself, so why neglect yourself and focus all your energy on a relationship? Do yourself a favor and focus on you, because in the end, that's what you'll have when you go through anything. 2
D.r.e Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 I had a few exes do something simular. Actually, almost all of them have. Some actually wanted to reconcile but that was only after I had completely moved on. I'm the guy they use to feel better about themselves because I was so nice to them. I make them feel better and then they move on to someone else. This breakup, I am working at skipping all that bull****. Already deleted the number, so if she ever txts, the response will be a legit "who's this?" I too am going to make 2016 all about me. Everything else in my life is great with no sign of slowing down. I won't be the same next year at this time.
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