miafarrow Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 (edited) The thing is that he lives in another country too. Originaly he is from mine. He said he wants to see me soon. Not sure if its worth to sturggle and keep any of contact or just to blow him off. Our mutual friend told me he changed a lot since he met me in a very good way and that he likes me a lot. Which is brilliant because it's really mutual from start. But I don't get his texting to me "I will see you soon" when I came back. Then I asked when as a joke for Christmas? (which was his idea) He didn't reply anything... that was like a less then a week ago (thats when I came back) Today I texted him some trash stuff that reminded me of him. We had some trash talk... I've realized he is not a guy who texts at all or as much. Almost none. Our mutual friend told me that too. And that he is too slow person! My point is that I am closed person and private person with men in general. It was a first time that after like 4 hours of hanging out with someone I told him a lot of stuff about me and on his initiative. He was like talking about his family, he told his family about me, he showed me all of his friends, photos, he told me his future plans and what he wants to do in life, I mean like everything and I did like too. Which means this guy is like taking me serious somewhere in future and is changing his mind because of me. When we've met he told me like he is not a relationship guy and that he can't keep it going for more then 2 months. He slept with only 2 girls and he is like 33. He told me like he doesn't needs to get married at all if he loves someone. After few days of meeting me he was like. I need to be alone and think about my life and decide if I want to get married. He told me he could never had a relationship with someone who lives far. which I agreed. He told me like I am becoming his best friend, but that we are not friend because he doesn't sleep with his friends that its weird-something in between. I just laughed about it. But I don't know him. Our mutual friend told me he doesn't have many friends there and that he doesn't hang out much with other people. Then after a couple of days of haning out with me, he started to change his views in his life! Like he changed his job all of the sudden, he started to tell me that he needs to think if he wants to get married in his life and stuff. And I've got really confused by that. He was like always down and depressed as our friend told me, but now in a week he was like making major changes since he met me! I don't know if we should stay in touch on my initiative or if I should let him text/call me and comunicate and do nothing... Edited December 25, 2015 by miafarrow
Gaeta Posted December 27, 2015 Posted December 27, 2015 No it's not worth it. Something is wrong with this man. He is socially awkward or suffers from some type of anxiety syndrome. At 33 he should be more emotionally stable. I don't know how old you are but I assure you, as per what you're saying here, this man is not stable.
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