miss_dc25 Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 My boyfriend of four years broke up with me today. I am so upset, i don't know how someone could do this right before Christmas.This would've been our fifth one together. It doesn't make sense to me because i just spent my birthday together with him last week. We went to dinner and everything and he was acting totally fine. So this was kinda out of the blue and i was caught off guard. I have my family and stuff but I'm sure they don't want to see my cry all day tomorrow while unwrapping gifts. I wish the hurt would stop but then i think about all the memories and get upset all over again.
Ic1 Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 My boyfriend of four years broke up with me today. I am so upset, i don't know how someone could do this right before Christmas.This would've been our fifth one together. It doesn't make sense to me because i just spent my birthday together with him last week. We went to dinner and everything and he was acting totally fine. So this was kinda out of the blue and i was caught off guard. I have my family and stuff but I'm sure they don't want to see my cry all day tomorrow while unwrapping gifts. I wish the hurt would stop but then i think about all the memories and get upset all over again. He's not the 'man' you obviously thought he was, because he is a boy who chose such a time. At least you didn't waste another Christmas with him. Merry Christmas, and just think of all the guys who can ask for you number now. I bet it won't be hard to find a better one.
TunaCat Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 Oh man, OP. I am so sorry he chose to break up with you today. He chose the worst time to do this. I know you don't want to bring your family down tomorrow, but being around family is probably the best thing for you right now. The hurt won't go away for awhile, so surround yourself with family & friends.
Sparta Posted December 25, 2015 Posted December 25, 2015 0P I'm very sorry for your situation. You said that things were good. Your boyfriend and you just spent your birthday together and everything seemed to be fine. OP would you care to elaborate more on your relationship.?
Author miss_dc25 Posted December 25, 2015 Author Posted December 25, 2015 Well everything was going good. But a couple of months ago he had a falling out with his mother. And just became angry towards everyone and would take his stresses out on me. So i was beginning to feel like he was pushing me away. And all i was trying to do was help him through his problems. And we were working on it and i thought we were past all of it. And then today he just kept saying he was stressed and that hes damaged goods. I mean i have my own stresses too and i'm working on some of my own issues. For six months i went through hell with my hormones being out of wack from pills i later found out i didn't even need. During the time that i was on them i wasn't a very nice person because i was so unstable. When i was on them i was very anxious and scared and i had some terrible thoughts cross my mind. I know that couldn't have been easy on him, but at the time i didn't feel like he was there for me. And we worked through all of that and now i'm back to my old self. And in the beginning of our relationship i went through a major surgery where i was in the hospital for over a week. At that time we were only together a month. so the whole unstable mood thing should have been nothing compared to that.
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