Jessie1231 Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 Wow...animal crackers. I guess I won't be responding to any of your posts anymore either (which I am sure you are VERY happy about) ... sorry but you are just not right in the head. Sad...but good luck and I do wish you the best. CYA. Agree completely. OP, you are really quick to point out every single tiny issue you perceive with anyone else while failing to realize that these problems you have with so many people are created in your own head. Are you in therapy? I think you would really benefit from it. 2
Qboro90 Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 Qboro, you're the worst adviser ever. I didn't even read your long post so stop wasting your precious time. I don't care whatever you have to said because you're clearly from a parallel universe where things occur contrary to this one. Goodbye Lol. You got it. When you ask everyone what 2 + 2 equals. And everyone says 4. It's absurd to get defensive and stand by your belief that 2 + 2 = 5. You're approach toward this guy and the replies/advice you get here is 2 + 2=5. Have you had previous relationships in your life that were healthy, mutually supportive/beneficial, and long term? Has your dating life in the last 3-5 years been making you happy and your ideal way to live? Are the guys you meet giving you the same emotion back to you consistently? Are you currently dating someone and in a happy healthy relationship? Are your dates leading to positive relationships and exciting opportunities? If none of those are checked off then it would seem obvious that the issue isn't with the men around you, or the people here who reply to your posts... The issue is ....... 2
katiegrl Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 (edited) Katie, don't you have a boyfriend? Where is he while you spend hours posting here? Is he by your side? You don't even remember what you've advised and now wow you've changed just as the wind. No we broke up hun...see my thread in break up section. I ended it...found out he is a drug addict..... But while we were dating/living together/engaged...yah he actually was by my side while I posted, watching sports or working on his laptop, whatevs. And yeah, I often do change my opinion, when I learn new information. Because I am open-minded and flexible ..as opposed to rigid and inflexible despite learning new information that would warrant me changing my mind...and opinion. I see you have a problem with that though ...so no worries, I won't be wasting my time or energy attempting to advise or help you anymore... Edited December 28, 2015 by katiegrl 1
introverted1 Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 I've ended with this madness once and for all. I unblocked him this morning and received a text around 5 pm thanking me for my best wishes (yeah, that's 22 hours since my text wishing him a good day) I replied: "sure! Hey, I don't want to sound ungrateful because I've really enjoyed your company but I think we're looking for different things so I wish you all the best. Goodbye" He never replied. It's almost 11 pm (almost 7 hours!) so I just deleted all our texts and also his contact number. He's been off line since Thursday so my guess is he already found someone he's really interested in (not me, for sure). So, this is finally over. I've also deleted all our messages in online dating, and I've also hidden his profile. I hope I can find someone one day. It feels lonely. So did you end it because you wanted to end it or were/are you hoping he would beg you not to? Somehow, I am getting the vibe it's the latter. I hope you can understand that only a desperately insecure person would respond to your "goodbye" text with a declaration of interest. In fact, your goodbye text just highlighted your own insecurities to this guy, so even if he was interested, that text would have killed it. Lol. You got it. When you ask everyone what 2 + 2 equals. And everyone says 4. It's absurd to get defensive and stand by your belief that 2 + 2 = 5. You're approach toward this guy and the replies/advice you get here is 2 + 2=5. As my son would say: if you smell dog poop everywhere you go, pretty soon you need to realise it's on your shoe.
Gaeta Posted December 28, 2015 Posted December 28, 2015 He just drove to a hotel without even asking me. He corrected my grammar. He said women call him don draper. He gave me a look when a piece of bread fell from my hands... Memory please. Your discourse is highly confusing And why do you want to be in an exclusive relationship with such a man?
Author brokengirl85 Posted December 28, 2015 Author Posted December 28, 2015 And why do you want to be in an exclusive relationship with such a man? I guess I was wrong. I thought it could work with him. He sounded so grounded and secure, but at the same time so cold and distant...like he couldn't care less. I have not a lot if experience in dating, so my ingenuity didn't help me this time. One always is learning
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