How to deal with this?

[katiegrl]

Did I do the right thing?

 

I'm still not sure if he's stringing me along but there are major red flags (three dates and we're both still online dating, he texts me every three days with random messages but no fourth date invitation, in our dates we chit chatted but nothing consistent which made me believe he wanted just sex, never said I was beautiful and, mostly, he made me feel insecure and confused. He's condescending with me but I guess it's his personality. Meh)

 

Me: never initiated, never had sex, sometimes ignored him when his texts were inconclusive, never made him feel pressured, quite the contrary!)

 

 

 

****Yesterday night he asked if I'd like to meet this weekend or next week and I replied yes, but that I already have other commitments this weekend but we could plan for next week.***

 

 

 

 

Cri cri...

 

Should I just had accepted going out with him this weekend? Is it ok the way I'm proceeding (cautiously, slow, light)?

 

Quote in asterisk above, ugh.

 

Missed this during the first read through, but after reading losangelina's post, went back to re-read.

 

BG, was this the fourth date he was proposing?

 

If so....not getting where you get he never asked you for fourth date.

 

I am really confused now, and what were these prior commitments?

 

Or did you simply turn him down because he asked after Wednesday?

 

Can you clarify? Really confused now

[brokengirl85]

Quote in asterisk above, ugh.

 

Missed this during the first read through, but after reading losangelina's post, went back to re-read.

 

BG, was this the fourth date he was proposing?

 

If so....not getting where you get he never asked you for fourth date.

 

I am really confused now, and what were these prior commitments?

 

Or did you simply turn him down because he asked after Wednesday?

 

Can you clarify? Really confused now

 

Sure. He got back to me to wish me a Merry Christmas and asked me if I'd like to meet him again either this weekend or next week.

I told him I had other commitments for this weekend but that I'd love to meet next week.

 

That was all. He never followed up after that. And yes, this was going to be a fourth date.

[losangelena]

That's ok you give advice here based on your feelings, as I've read so far from your previous post.

 

Wow, can't tell if you're throwing shade here or not.

[katiegrl]

It's hard for me to just ignore someone forever. Specially someone I like. I'd have to just block him so I don't have to see his texts

 

 

 

***but what if he is just slow and doesn't want to rush things? ***

 

 

 

He sent me a merry Christmas text and I replied merry Christmas because I'm polite. But he hasn't planned our fourth date yet even though I told him last night I'm up to meet next week.

 

One thing I know and is that I won't accept a date if he asks me after Wednesday. I have other options and I won't wait for him anymore.

 

Okay, apologies but just read through this thread again, and have changed my initial opinion a bit.

 

Quote in asterisk above (cannot bold from my tablet)....

 

BK, you seem unsure what his intentions are, if he is stringing you along, just taking it slow, etc.

 

You also seem to have a few unrealistic expectations here too. Like if he does not ask you out by Wednesday ..you feel like a plan b or an option ?

 

Not getting that one but whatevs. Seems silly to me. And frankly a bit of a game...or shyt test.

 

Also, and not to rag on you, but since you have been strung along in the past, involved with "players" or men who weren't that into you, you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder, and seem bitter, and angry at men, in general!

 

If I am wrong, I apologize, but that is what I am sensing from your posts.

 

This is not a good attitude, as I am sure you know.

 

You are overly cautious and distrustful ...too guarded.

 

Men can sense this in a woman and it's a turn off.

 

If I were dating a man I really liked, (1) I would not ignore three messages and/or not respond back for ten days, (2) if he proposed a date for the weekend, and I was busy all weekend, I would share with him what I was doing, and suggest another day right then and there, and (3)

would not get all bent because he hasn't jumped to plan the fourth date, since you told him you were busy all weekend, and would not be available till next week anyway.

 

I would stay positive, and presume we will touch base next week to plan the next date. And I would have wished him a Merry Christmas!

 

I would also not get bent because he had not told me I was beautiful. What is that about anyway ...are you so insecure and in such need of verbal affirmations that if a man does not tell you you are beautiful, you assume he might be stringing you along?

 

Not getting that one either.

 

BK, with respect, you play a lot of games and employ too many shyt tests IMO. You may not think so and believe you are simply being self-protective, but it's too much.

 

You posted earlier that you felt you were unavailable for dating right now, and that is why you attract unavailable men.

 

Please explore this, because you may be right.

 

And even if they *were* available when you started dating them, they end up becoming unavailable *to you* because you are unavailable, or *acting* like you are unavailable.... and they are following suit.

 

Jmo, and again good luck....I hope everything works out for you the way you want it too!

Edited December 26, 2015 by katiegrl

[MidwestUSA]

When he asked for the fourth date, you should have offered him a solid day and time. I'm sorry, but it does appear that you're the one playing games.

 

If he's condescending and rude, then drop him. If you want a fourth date, go for it. I've never expected a man to initiate everything.

 

You're wishey washey and now defensive on top of it.

 

And needing to be called beautiful? At this point? Really?

[brokengirl85]

Okay, apologies but just read through this thread again, and have changed my initial opinion a bit.

 

Quote in asterisk above (cannot bold from my tablet)....

 

BK, you seem unsure what his intentions are, if he is stringing you along, just taking it slow, etc.

 

You also seem to have a few unrealistic expectations here too. Like if he does not ask you out by Wednesday ..you feel like a plan b or an option ?

 

Not getting that one but whatevs. Seems silly to me. And frankly a bit of a game...or shyt test.

 

Also, and not to rag on you, but since you have been strung along in the past, involved with "players" or men who weren't that into you, you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder, and seem bitter, and angry at men, in general!

 

If I am wrong, I apologize, but that is what I am sensing from your posts.

 

This is not a good attitude, as I am sure you know.

 

You are overly cautious and distrustful ...too guarded.

 

Men can sense this in a woman and it's a turn off.

 

If I were dating a man I really liked, (1) I would not ignore three messages and/or not respond back for ten days, (2) if he proposed a date for the weekend, and I was busy all weekend, I would share with him what I was doing, and suggest another day right then and there, and (3)

would not get all bent because he hasn't jumped to plan the fourth date, since you told him you were busy all weekend, and would not be available till next week anyway.

 

I would stay positive, and presume we will touch base next week to plan the next date. And I would have wished him a Merry Christmas!

 

I would also not get bent because he had not told me I was beautiful. What is that about anyway ...are you so insecure and in such need of verbal affirmations that if a man does not tell you you are beautiful, you assume he might be stringing you along?

 

Not getting that one either.

 

BK, with respect, you play a lot of games and employ too many shyt tests IMO. You may not think so and believe you are simply being self-protective, but it's too much.

 

You posted earlier that you felt you were unavailable for dating right now, and that is why you attract unavailable men.

 

Please explore this, because you may be right.

 

And even if they *were* available when you started dating them, they end up becoming unavailable *to you* because you are unavailable, or *acting* like you are unavailable.... and they are following suit.

 

Jmo, and again good luck....I hope everything works out for you the way you want it too!

 

This guy is the dr, as you may remember from my previous thread.

I won't jump into conclusions, but even though I unblocked him this morning, he still hasn't replied BUT he's online.

 

I know I'm s little wary. I was doing ok until he started contacting me again. I need vacations from online dating, I don't think it's for me.

[brokengirl85]

When he asked for the fourth date, you should have offered him a solid day and time. I'm sorry, but it does appear that you're the one playing games.

 

If he's condescending and rude, then drop him. If you want a fourth date, go for it. I've never expected a man to initiate everything.

 

You're wishey washey and now defensive on top of it.

 

And needing to be called beautiful? At this point? Really?

 

Look, I told him let's plan for next week and he ignored my text. I texted him again last night asking how was his day and again he ignored me. What else do you want me to do?

[katiegrl]

This guy is the dr, as you may remember from my previous thread.

I won't jump into conclusions, but even though I unblocked him this morning, he still hasn't replied BUT he's online.

 

I know I'm s little wary. I was doing ok until he started contacting me again. I need vacations from online dating, I don't think it's for me.

 

No I don't remember, but will go back and read it to refresh my memory.

 

But even if this guy IS stringing you along, consider the the things I mentioned in my post anyway ...for the future.

 

And I agree, taking a break from OLD would be a good thing. At least for awile.

 

hugs

[MidwestUSA]

Look, I told him let's plan for next week and he ignored my text. I texted him again last night asking how was his day and again he ignored me. What else do you want me to do?

 

I think that break you mentioned is a great idea. You're not in the right mindset to date. Good luck.

[Qboro90]

OK, that's great, but then why do the exact opposite just because someone on LS suggested you text him? I'm sorry, but you can't just go around blaming others of things that you do.

 

Look, I told him let's plan for next week and he ignored my text. I texted him again last night asking how was his day and again he ignored me. What else do you want me to do?

 

You blocked him and said you're done with this guy forever.... Then you texted him last night to chit chat about his day even tho it was Christmas and he's probably got family obligations. If you want to blame people here for why things aren't working out that's fine, but you are in full control of the communication and interactions you have with this guy.

 

Katiegrl makes a good point about you harboring ill will towards men and having a chip on your shoulder based of past relationships or dating experiences. Whether this guy is playing you or not playing you remains to be seen because the roller coaster of emotions changes how you describe him on a daily basis.

 

All that we can be sure about right now is that this guy has taken you out on 3 very nice dates that he initiated and set up. He hasn't pressured you into anything physical and even pulled back when you appeared uncomfortable and changed the setting in order to make you feel less nervous or uneasy. He's also has an online dating profile that hasn't been deleted which in my opinion is totally normal because you and him aren't exclusive in any way nor have you had any discussions about anything other than basic chit chat. He's remained in contact with you trying to keep a line of communication open and has asked you on a fourth date. Just because you said you were busy for the foreseeable future in the next week and weekend doesn't mean he didn't try. Whether he's dating other women or talking to other women is pure speculation and there is no definite answer or way of knowing if he is or isn't because you haven't asked or discussed it.

 

You've blocked him, unblocked him, blocked him some more, replied vaguely to his texts, as well as ignored him completely. When you do text him it's minimal effort and expression on your behalf and you're looking for him to follow this very specific line of expressing his feelings and intentions that are unrealistic to everyone else here. When he doesn't do these things you get upset and make decisions to cease communication because of your preconceived notions about him and dating in general.

 

It's not that difficult. Do you like this guy and are interested in getting to know him more? Yes or no? If yes... Then you text him and say "hey, sry been hectic around the holidays, I'm free next Friday and Saturday if you wanna do something. Let me know what you think". That's all. If you don't like him and don't want to talk to or see him again, then you can either block/delete his number or if you want to be mature you can text him and say "hey, been meaning to get back to you. I think you're a great guy but I don't get the feeling we are looking for the same thing. Don't want to mislead you or waste your time so I don't think it's best we go out again"

[Just a Guy]

Hey Lady, I guess you have been given a lot of good advice here. I had a few questions for you if you don't mind answering them. The first would be about your age. How old are you? Also have you been in a serious relationship before this? If so how long ago was that, why did you break up, and were you traumatised by the break up? Are you an introvert by nature and generally speaking find it difficult to relate to other people or are you a friendly person with a sunny nature and are able to get along with all sorts of people?

I would say that you should not carry all your eggs in one basket at this stage of your dating life. You should have a few chestnuts in the fire, something which will help you assess the guys better since you can compare and contrasteach guy to get a clearer picture of each one. Do you have a clear concept of the kind of guy who would fit the bill as far as you go? You know some kind of a personal template against which you measure guys? Also, I think the way you dress when on dates would make a difference. If you come across as dull and dowdy you are not likely to score well with your fates. I am not suggesting that you wear risque clothing, rather it should be something smart and image enhancing so that you present the best possible picture of yourself. These are just a few of the things I think can help you in your quest. Warm wishes!

[brokengirl85]

I've ended with this madness once and for all.

I unblocked him this morning and received a text around 5 pm thanking me for my best wishes (yeah, that's 22 hours since my text wishing him a good day)

 

I replied: "sure! Hey, I don't want to sound ungrateful because I've really enjoyed your company but I think we're looking for different things so I wish you all the best. Goodbye"

 

He never replied. It's almost 11 pm (almost 7 hours!) so I just deleted all our texts and also his contact number.

 

He's been off line since Thursday so my guess is he already found someone he's really interested in (not me, for sure).

 

So, this is finally over. I've also deleted all our messages in online dating, and I've also hidden his profile.

 

I hope I can find someone one day. It feels lonely.

Edited December 27, 2015 by brokengirl85

[Gaeta]

I hope I can find someone one day. It feels lonely.

 

Yes you will. You need to find a nice beta male that will execute himself at the drop of your hat.

 

My sister in law is a doctor. It's very common for my brother to not hear from her for hours. She can easily stay at the hospital 48 hours straight with no time to eat.

 

I think you have unrealistic expectations.

[brokengirl85]

Yes you will. You need to find a nice beta male that will execute himself at the drop of your hat.

 

My sister in law is a doctor. It's very common for my brother to not hear from her for hours. She can easily stay at the hospital 48 hours straight with no time to eat.

 

I think you have unrealistic expectations.

 

Thank you. He's not working this holidays. Another suggestion?

[Scarlett.O'hara]

I've ended with this madness once and for all.

I unblocked him this morning and received a text around 5 pm thanking me for my best wishes (yeah, that's 22 hours since my text wishing him a good day)

 

I replied: "sure! Hey, I don't want to sound ungrateful because I've really enjoyed your company but I think we're looking for different things so I wish you all the best. Goodbye"

 

He never replied. It's almost 11 pm (almost 7 hours!) so I just deleted all our texts and also his contact number.

 

He's been off line since Thursday so my guess is he already found someone he's really interested in (not me, for sure).

 

So, this is finally over. I've also deleted all our messages in online dating, and I've also hidden his profile.

 

I hope I can find someone one day. It feels lonely.

 

It doesn't sound like he was looking for anything serious from what you have described so you did the right thing being honest with him. His silence confirms that you are looking for different things.

 

I understand you must be feeling disappointed right now but at least you are free from this endless confusion and stress and can move on and meet someone who can make you happy.

[Qboro90]

I've ended with this madness once and for all.

I unblocked him this morning and received a text around 5 pm thanking me for my best wishes (yeah, that's 22 hours since my text wishing him a good day)

 

I replied: "sure! Hey, I don't want to sound ungrateful because I've really enjoyed your company but I think we're looking for different things so I wish you all the best. Goodbye"

 

He never replied. It's almost 11 pm (almost 7 hours!) so I just deleted all our texts and also his contact number.

 

He's been off line since Thursday so my guess is he already found someone he's really interested in (not me, for sure).

 

So, this is finally over. I've also deleted all our messages in online dating, and I've also hidden his profile.

 

I hope I can find someone one day. It feels lonely.

 

You created the madness. How do you know he wasn't texting you while you had him blocked and throwing a tantrum? If he did try to text you while he was blocked then what would motivate him to give you timelely responses when you send him a bland, very close ended text "hey, hope you have a good day". There's not substance to that and once again you're doing the absolute bare minimum and expecting the world from the guy. Your experiences aren't going change regardless of whatever guy comes up next.

 

The fact that you count the hours between texts says all anyone needs to know about your state of mind. Whoever you start talking to and seeing becomes the entire focus of your social life and mind. The scenarios and pre conceived determinations you come up with constantly change on a day to day basis depending on what contact you get from the guy, lack of contact you get, social media/old activity you observe (due to you obsessively checking on what he's doing and then jumping to conclusions about why he's active on his computer btw). No one is going to give you the level of attention and commitment that you're looking for during such early stages of seeing someone, definitely not after 3 dates, and definitely not after the communication and actions you have shown to him throughout the small amount of time you hung out.

 

You met a successful, educated, good looking, single, doctor, who went out of his way to take you out and entertain you on 3 separate dates. A guy who didn't push for sex nor pressure you for more. A guy who despite being ignored multiple times, despite being blocked, despite only getting a couple of kisses after 3 well thought out and planned dates, despite the hot and cold feedback he received since day 1. And you ended it becauseee....... He didn't drop everything he was doing, delete his OLD profile immediately, verbalize that he wants a long term gf and thinks you're the one for him, and compliment your looks enough? Sheesh.

Single, successful, normal, outgoing doctors don't come along all that often. No **** they're probably going to have other options. Just like you, as an attractive woman, likely has other options (at least this guy and most guys would think so for sure). You have this issue with thinking that talking and going after someone you like/are interested in... Is the same thing as being a desperate clingy girl who is chasing a guy who's a player. That's just not reality. It's never going to fall in your lap. You most likely have to learn how to come across as casual and assertive when you communicate and start talking to or dating someone because based on your posts you likely do come across as desperate, over analytical and clingy.

If I met a girl who was single, attractive, successful; and interesting. You bet your butt that I'm going to do everything I can to explore the possibilities that might be there as much as I can. As long as she responds and keeps saying yes to going out with me then I'm taking that to mean that she's interested in me and if I keep doing what I'm doing and she gets to know me, then I'm confident we will be able to ignite that spark that I'm trying to create. I wouldn't expect her to put all her hopes into me after going out to 3 dinners. That would actually be alarming if she did that and weird me out. You on the other hand are looking for that immediate exclusivity and verbalization about how he feels about you, what he is looking for, and where he sees things going between the two of you.

 

The fact that you even consider blocking, unblocking, deleting numbers and texts is completely unecessary and immature. It's almost as if you think he knows you're doing any of these things (which he doesn't) and will feel guilty or like a dick bc of it. Adults are able to go on dates, meet new people, enjoy getting to know them, and have it be a small part of their overall lives. And if things go well, great... If things don't... Or if you don't like the kind of guy he is or visa versa, you should be able to end the process/interactions without a big dramatic finale. I've gone on countless dates... I've never had to or wanted to block someone when it didn't work out. That says more about you then it does him.

 

As long as that's your M.O then this will continue to happen and the roller coaster of emotions will go on.

[katiegrl]

You created the madness. How do you know he wasn't texting you while you had him blocked and throwing a tantrum? If he did try to text you while he was blocked then what would motivate him to give you timelely responses when you send him a bland, very close ended text "hey, hope you have a good day". There's not substance to that and once again you're doing the absolute bare minimum and expecting the world from the guy. Your experiences aren't going change regardless of whatever guy comes up next.

 

The fact that you count the hours between texts says all anyone needs to know about your state of mind. Whoever you start talking to and seeing becomes the entire focus of your social life and mind. The scenarios and pre conceived determinations you come up with constantly change on a day to day basis depending on what contact you get from the guy, lack of contact you get, social media/old activity you observe (due to you obsessively checking on what he's doing and then jumping to conclusions about why he's active on his computer btw). No one is going to give you the level of attention and commitment that you're looking for during such early stages of seeing someone, definitely not after 3 dates, and definitely not after the communication and actions you have shown to him throughout the small amount of time you hung out.

 

You met a successful, educated, good looking, single, doctor, who went out of his way to take you out and entertain you on 3 separate dates. A guy who didn't push for sex nor pressure you for more. A guy who despite being ignored multiple times, despite being blocked, despite only getting a couple of kisses after 3 well thought out and planned dates, despite the hot and cold feedback he received since day 1. And you ended it becauseee....... He didn't drop everything he was doing, delete his OLD profile immediately, verbalize that he wants a long term gf and thinks you're the one for him, and compliment your looks enough? Sheesh.

Single, successful, normal, outgoing doctors don't come along all that often. No **** they're probably going to have other options. Just like you, as an attractive woman, likely has other options (at least this guy and most guys would think so for sure). You have this issue with thinking that talking and going after someone you like/are interested in... Is the same thing as being a desperate clingy girl who is chasing a guy who's a player. That's just not reality. It's never going to fall in your lap. You most likely have to learn how to come across as casual and assertive when you communicate and start talking to or dating someone because based on your posts you likely do come across as desperate, over analytical and clingy.

If I met a girl who was single, attractive, successful; and interesting. You bet your butt that I'm going to do everything I can to explore the possibilities that might be there as much as I can. As long as she responds and keeps saying yes to going out with me then I'm taking that to mean that she's interested in me and if I keep doing what I'm doing and she gets to know me, then I'm confident we will be able to ignite that spark that I'm trying to create. I wouldn't expect her to put all her hopes into me after going out to 3 dinners. That would actually be alarming if she did that and weird me out. You on the other hand are looking for that immediate exclusivity and verbalization about how he feels about you, what he is looking for, and where he sees things going between the two of you.

 

The fact that you even consider blocking, unblocking, deleting numbers and texts is completely unecessary and immature. It's almost as if you think he knows you're doing any of these things (which he doesn't) and will feel guilty or like a dick bc of it. Adults are able to go on dates, meet new people, enjoy getting to know them, and have it be a small part of their overall lives. And if things go well, great... If things don't... Or if you don't like the kind of guy he is or visa versa, you should be able to end the process/interactions without a big dramatic finale. I've gone on countless dates... I've never had to or wanted to block someone when it didn't work out. That says more about you then it does him.

 

As long as that's your M.O then this will continue to happen and the roller coaster of emotions will go on.

 

^^I nominate this for the best post on this thread!

 

Well said Qboro!

 

It's long, but I hope BG reads it, cuz it is RIGHT ON!!!

 

100% right on!

[brokengirl85]

^^I nominate this for the best post on this thread!

 

Well said Qboro!

 

It's long, but I hope BG reads it, cuz it is RIGHT ON!!!

 

100% right on!

 

Wow katiegrl, this us the doctor you despised. Don't you just remember how you advice me to just ignore him because he was clearly a jerk?? Gezz

[brokengirl85]

He just drove to a hotel without even asking me. He corrected my grammar. He said women call him don draper. He gave me a look when a piece of bread fell from my hands...

 

Memory please. Your discourse is highly confusing

[katiegrl]

Wow katiegrl, this us the doctor you despised. Don't you just remember how you advice me to just ignore him because he was clearly a jerk?? Gezz

 

I cannot keep up with all your posts and threads.....BK, sorry.

 

And even assuming he is a jerk....which he very well may be ....YOU still handled this all wrong, because you have issues. Blocking, unblocking, all your expectations after only three dates, it's crazy!

 

And if you don't get your act together ...what happened with the doctor will happen with the next guy, and the next guy and guy after that.

 

And they may be GOOD guys, but your fears and insecurities and unrealistic expectations will ruin it....so please hope you can get some help and figure it out....

Edited December 28, 2015 by katiegrl

[Qboro90]

He just drove to a hotel without even asking me. He corrected my grammar. He said women call him don draper. He gave me a look when a piece of bread fell from my hands.

 

Oops, didn't realize that he corrected your grammar and gave you a look when you dropped a piece of bread. Clearly this guy is the devil and you should run away as fast as possible. - Sarcasm

 

"Why did you and your boyfriend break up?"

 

- "oh... Well I dropped a piece of bread during dinner.. And he gave me a look! Can you believe the nerve of him!?"

[katiegrl]

He just drove to a hotel without even asking me. He corrected my grammar. He said women call him don draper. He gave me a look when a piece of bread fell from my hands.

 

Oops, didn't realize that he corrected your grammar and gave you a look when you dropped a piece of bread. Clearly this guy is the devil and you should run away as fast as possible. - Sarcasm

 

"Why did you and your boyfriend break up?"

 

- "oh... Well I dropped a piece of bread during dinner.. And he gave me a look! Can you believe the nerve of him!?"

 

I think BK needs to take the focus off what a jerk this guy is, or she perceives him to be, or I or others perceived him to be based on what she posted in previous threads ....and focus on HERSELF and her fears, insecurities, anxieties and unrealistic expectations.

 

Because those are the issues that need addressing, not what a jerk this guy is, or other guys are.

[brokengirl85]

He just drove to a hotel without even asking me. He corrected my grammar. He said women call him don draper. He gave me a look when a piece of bread fell from my hands.

 

Oops, didn't realize that he corrected your grammar and gave you a look when you dropped a piece of bread. Clearly this guy is the devil and you should run away as fast as possible. - Sarcasm

 

"Why did you and your boyfriend break up?"

 

- "oh... Well I dropped a piece of bread during dinner.. And he gave me a look! Can you believe the nerve of him!?"

 

Qboro, you're the worst adviser ever. I didn't even read your long post so stop wasting your precious time. I don't care whatever you have to said because you're clearly from a parallel universe where things occur contrary to this one. Goodbye

[brokengirl85]

 

I think BK needs to take the focus off what a jerk this guy is, or she perceives him to be, or I or others perceived him to be based on what she posted in previous threads ....and focus on HERSELF and her fears, insecurities, anxieties and unrealistic expectations.

 

Because those are the issues that need addressing, not what a jerk this guy is, or other guys are.

 

Katie, don't you have a boyfriend? Where is he while you spend hours posting here? Is he by your side?

You don't even remember what you've advised and now wow you've changed just as the wind.

[katiegrl]

 

Qboro, you're the worst adviser ever. I didn't even read your long post so stop wasting your precious time. I don't care whatever you have to said because you're clearly from a parallel universe where things occur contrary to this one. Goodbye

 

Wow...animal crackers.

 

I guess I won't be responding to any of your posts anymore either (which I am sure you are VERY happy about) ... sorry but you are just not right in the head.

 

Sad...but good luck and I do wish you the best.

 

CYA.