She's Runs to her Ex and Comes Back (Hot And Cold)

[Heretostayy]

I've bbeen talking to this girl who has had a crush on me forever she admitted to me. We started talking on Halloween and hung out almost every day, everything was good until she left me for ex. My friend called and asked her "why she do me like that" her words was "cause he has my heart".

 

Two days after that she comes back, we hang out everyday again. She cut off contact with her ex on social media so everything was great, then she up and left me again for her ex. We didn't speak for about 3 weeks. She blocked me off her Twitter. So after they got into big arguement she comes back to me saying I should have never left.

 

Now we're talking again. Why is she so hot n cold? Is she still emotionally attached to her ex? Should I be aware she'll leave again?

[Triggs1234]

My advice is simple. Do not talk or hang with her. If she can go back and forth then it is a waste of your time. You do not want someone like that. I talked to a girl like that and it was just a big mix of games. Save yourself getting too involved.

[LostOnes05]

Nope, question is why are you allowing her back in your life every time? Sometimes the best way for someone to understand what you mean to them is to remove your presence.

[Sparta]

0P Of course she well you've taken her back three times why would she think of Fourth Or a fifth, you have shown her that she can leave and come back anytime. She just going off of your actions. I think it be a good idea we think this relationship.

[bubbaganoosh]

The reason for her coming back at her own whim is simple. You let her. The more you continue with this, the more it will happen.

 

Time for you to let her know that her behavior stinks to high heaven and for her to take a walk because your not putting up with her nonsense any more.

 

Either that or be prepared for her to keep walking all over you. Your the only one that can do something about it.