Babydoll1427 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 I'm sry for length! I'm trying to tell whole story!Ok so I really need help I've reas tons of articles but I'm just not getting the answer I need. I've been dating this guy on and off for two months the first month we were going strong I built a relationship with his family he always expressed how much he cares for me and we were together all the time. We started having minor fights but we're moving past them easily. He started being secretive about his phone so when he wasn't looking I checked and saw he was talking to multiple other woman. I was upset and hurt and expressed this he was extremely apologetic and said he just talks to them and he only wants to be with me. He was convincing so I took him back. Soon after that he started acting shady he was texting me daily but not mentioning hanging out just texting without fail everyday. I finally freaked out after a week saying he wasn't acting the same and why? He told me he was sorry he was seeing someone else. I said ok. That was it then two days later he's texting me saying how much he misses me. So I get completely drunk and see him. I was a MESS the next morning we went for coffee and everything seemed fine then he started doing it again. Texting daily but not asking me out. So I decided to explore my options and next time he contacted me I told him I went out with someone else. He said he didn't like that. And it didn't feel good to him knowing I was seeing other guys. I told him does he think I like it? He said no. He ended up coming over that night and he spent the night. We had sex but he made it all. About me and was being super affectionate also the night he was there he kept asking the names of the guys I was seeing and if I have a boyfriend and did I have sex with them. I told him no and I wasn't lying. He left that morning saying he would call me after work I never heard from him and I was in a dating site he saw me messages me and told me his phone broke call him right away and was pist I was on the site which is another thing if he sees me on a site he gets really jealous. I called him the call lasted all of three minutes he said he would call me later and never did. He was also on the phone saying I thought you deleted that site? He acts super jealous but barely makes time for me he is also in constant contact but is never asking to see me anymore is he waiting for me to ask? I don't get it why are you so jealous but your making no effort to get back together? Please someone tell me what's going on!
xcupid Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 He sounds like a loser - not consistent, lots of excuses, jealous, secretive, and looks like he wants you for sex. Find someone else. He's not boyfriend material at all. WAY too much drama for someone who isn't even exclusive with you.
Buddhist Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 You're being played. It's that simple. Everytime you take him back, he gets sex and a fun little game to play. Stop replying to his texts and stop giving him sex. 2
Author Babydoll1427 Posted December 24, 2015 Author Posted December 24, 2015 No I get why you would say he is a loser but we were actually bf and gf for a month he then broke up with me but is still pursuing me that's what I don't get
Author Babydoll1427 Posted December 24, 2015 Author Posted December 24, 2015 If I just completely ignore him won't he think I'm not interested and just give up contacting me?
Buddhist Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 If I just completely ignore him won't he think I'm not interested and just give up contacting me? With any luck, yes. This guy is not going to commit to you. He's already broken up with you once. Move on or be strung along but you won't get what you want from him. 1
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