NVO Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 First of all, nice to post something in this section of LS instead of the heartbroken one hehe. I met a girl through a mutual friend. Well, not exactly met. I got her number and we started texting. I asked her out the first time after a few days. It was fast, but I like to get to know someone in person instead of just texting. She turned it down, just coming out of a relationship. Wish my friend told me though, wouldn't have asked haha. But she told me I was a nice guy and eventually we kept on texting. We had things in common, like we like both like to travel, enjoy architecture and history. Some time later I asked her out for the second time. This time she told me: "I don't say 'no', but this weekend I'm really busy and it's my birthday so I have a party planned with my friends." So, a week later I asked again and this time she told me she was busy that weekend again due to a kids holiday here in Holland. She's an au pair so she had to work I guess. I kind of lost interest at this point. Two weeks passed without any contact and from that point she started to initiate contact. She told me she was going on a trip to Berlin. Since I am a big World War 2 fanatic, I asked her to take a selfie on Unter den Linden, a street in Berlin. So this week she contacted me and posted the picture on Facebook, tagging my name in it. She also asked me for my address, but until this day I don't know why and I'm not allowed to ask by her haha. Guess the Christmas card is still on it's way. Today she went to Sachsenhausen, a concentration camp near Berlin. I noticed how she in the beginning of our texting acknowledged that she was not that interested in WW2, but now exploring it more and more. Seems like she is taking an interest in mine, but don't read to much in to it. I find it a fascinating time in history so I can understand others do too. But the point is, today she texted me saying that we really have to meet when she is back from her trip because there is so much she wants to tell me. Also she told me she bought me a gift that I would really love. She texted: "I know we did not meet yet, but I really feel like we are friends. So I bought you a gift that you will really love." Now don't get me wrong, I think it's sweet someone would do that for me. I told her so. But isn't it a bit weird someone does that for another person, while they have never met in person? Is there something more than friends? I'm not reading to much in to it, because we have never met. And even if she is just being friendly, I don't mind and would still meet her. I do like her, I guess, but it feels like she did a 180 and now is chasing me?
AspenBaldwin Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 The gift could be sth really small and cheap like a lighter with your initials on it. Don't freak out until you see the actual gift. 1
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