Ryan_XD Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 She made contact on snapchat to me earlier on in the week after being split up for over 7 months. (read about it more here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/562673-contact-s-me-after-7-months#post6701478) Strangely, I bumped into her today whilst she was running to the bank for work and I was christmas shopping. I saw her from a distance but pretended not too as I didn't really want to stop and talk, she then tapped me and stopped me. She was on the phone and told them she'd call them back whilst she stopped to speak to me. We stood talking for about 30 seconds, she then said that she was on her way to the bank for work and that I should walk with her, so I did and we spoke some more, sharing a few laughs and just catching up about things in general. I had no intentions on stopping to speak to her or even walking to the bank with her, I was prepared just to walk straight past her, she was the instigator for it all. During the conversation she said she'd decided to treat herself to a diamond ring, she said her boyfriend was supposed to buy it but they fall out so she went and got it a few months ago, not sure why she told me this... We both shared lot's of smiles and she seemed more interested in things I had to say now than when we was actually a couple for almost 4 years. It's strange because, we live in the same town but have never bumped into each other in the 7 months apart, and now we've spoken on snapchat for the first time and bumped into each other all in the same week. It has brought back so many memories and I feel some closure from the breakup now we've spoken like adults and it's all water under the bridge now. I am worried that, I'll have a setback and start wanting to talk to her more, rekindle old feelings for her, etc... Anyway, Again I just thought I'd make a post to get it off my chest and share it all with you. Thanks! x
Heartbrokenguy80 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 She might be dropping breadcrumbs or just being friendly. If she has intention to get back then you can try to work things out. If not then cont NC
D.r.e Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 I am worried that, I'll have a setback and start wanting to talk to her more, rekindle old feelings for her, etc... What do you want?
Simon Phoenix Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 Sounds like a friendly chat to me. I wouldn't think anything of it or act on it in any way.
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