Cutie_face Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 Me and my boyfriend broke up today. We've been going out for 7 months, and we went on a break for a couple of weeks, but today he just told me that he wants to be good friends. He told me he cares about me and he loves me very much as a friend, and he's been putting this off because he couldnt bear the thought of hurting me. I am in shock, i feel like my world has been turned upside down, and i am just totally not coping, i haven't been since we started the break, but now i just feel like i'm without hope. It's my birthday in two days and he says that he still wants to take me out for a meal, but i dont know if i can physically handle just seeing him and knowing he doesn't love me anymore, and that all he does is care about me alot. However, i do still wanna see him, as i miss him and i cherish him a lot, and we always said we would stay friends. I just don't know whether i should, my birthday wouldn't be the same without him, but i fear just seeing him and bursting into tears, any advice please guys?
s_t_u_d Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 hey hun chin up sorry 2 hear about ur split up with ur lad! 7 months is a long time 2 be with a lad! i feel 4 him 2 say that he doesnt love u is abit far fetched! by the sounds of it in this 2 weeks u have had a break he has gone off n found another girl but realises she is not u! obviously he cares 4 u n obviously he feels alot 4 u! meetin up with him would only just cause alot more problems.... wot if u went had a meal with him ended up going home with him and having sex...... n then u dint hear from him 4 another 2 weeks! who would feel alot more miserable? who would feel used? who would be the fool 4 going out with a meal with him? u can only blame yourself mayb u shud consider going out with ur mates having fun in a niteclub let urself go! ive split up with my girl n ill b posting cos u girl are hard 2 understand so maybeee u could help me on a girls point of view! My final piece of advice let ur hair down girl dnt let him get 2 ya he probs only wants ya 4 1 thing lile most men do! go out with ur girly mates or even better have a girly nite in u will enjoy it maybe speak soon my northen friend cyassss hope this helps xx
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