Xttnx Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 Ok so this guy and I have started texting a couple days ago. He was really into getting to know me and I got to know him really well (he wrote paragraphs about himself). But he claims that he's a social freak and he loves to talk a lot. Here's a snippet from our convo. Is this considered flirting or friendly teasing? Also, he told me that "oh my god you seem so innocent" and then he told me he "doesn't know how to feel" because he hasn't been around innocence in a while. What does this mean? Also do really sociable and friendly guys talk to a girl for the entire day straight just as friends interested in getting to know each other?? Him: Omg I'm getting so tired right now I can't even Me: "I can control my body" ^^ Him: IM AWAKE NOW GIRL LOL HUSH Me: Go to sleep boi Me: or grandpa Him: Go to sleep child Him: Why are you up I thought you sleep at this time Me: Don't tell me what to do Me: Haha it's winter break whatever Him: Ooooookh lawbreaker I like Him:
d0nnivain Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 I have no idea. Texting is a horrible way to communicate. Try talking to him. You will get so much more info from the tone of his voice. 1
GunslingerRoland Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 It isn't a very flirty conversation, it's just goofy. Which can be a good thing, but I can't really see either way. As for innocence thing, it clearly sounds like he's not that innocent himself, and isn't sure how to treat you because of it. Depending on what your intentions are, you might need to be a bit more forward yourself.
xcupid Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 Save yourself wondering by meeting him in person. This texting is going nowhere.
Author Xttnx Posted December 24, 2015 Author Posted December 24, 2015 Ok so I was trying to schedule a hangout with a guy I don't really know well/just started talking to. And he said he likes to do spontaneous stuff. Then I asked him if he likes this town center (where it's all Christmasy and there are restaurants and ice skating). Then he replied later saying "Hahah girl I have no idea honestly. It sounds like you're trying to have me take you out on a date tho" I thought that this means he's not actually interested so I denied it and said I don't really know him so I just wanted to meet him in person to get to know him better. BUT EVERYONE is saying by him escalating it to being a date, he wants me to admit that I want him to take me out and that he was flirting? I don't know what to think anymore.
Snakechammah Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 Uhm, from my point of view, I would be slightly offended by his text. Maybe cos I'm a prude and probably much MUCH older than you, I don't like the tone of it - it has a vibe that he doesn't respect you as much as a lady should be respected. My first instinct would be to sarcastically reply "LOL dude, don't flatter yourself." But of course, unless you don't want to hear from him again, don't do this. What about you? Do YOU like him? Are you trying to 'win' him? If yes, I'd suggest to find a more responsive (and probably more matured) guy. Or if you can't help but really really like him, then maybe respond positively. I cringed as I write this. If no, then this text doesn't really matter anyway. Whatever it is, trust your instincts!
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