Thatmixedotaku Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 So my ex who dumped me is in my class now . I see her everyday now,probably will not talk to her as she is ignoring me just as much as I'm ignoring her but I see her everyday around college now. How am I supposed to cope? Any advice? For now I am "mentally blocking" her ,if that makes any sense . Everytime I see her my chest burns and I feel like I just may puke .
Heartbrokenguy80 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 I guess u can't do much since she's in your class. But u can respond how to react to the situation. Try to distract yourself or try to sit where you can see her. Maybe in front of her. Try to concentrate on what the lecturer say when you are in the class. This can keep your mind off her a bit.
lemondrop21 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 How old are you, are you in University? If so, then your term should have just ended, right? Or should be ending soon? If you're in high school then this will be harder as you have half a year left, but I promise you, you will get through it. Wishing you strength and peace. 1
Author Thatmixedotaku Posted December 23, 2015 Author Posted December 23, 2015 I am 21 ....my break is in a week, i cannot wait
lemondrop21 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 One week, that's great! Get through it day by day, and know each morning when you wake up that this time will pass, even if it feels terribly long right now. Look forward to the moment when you get in the car, on the airplane, or whatever to go home, because in that moment you will feel relief; sadness, but also relief. The space away will help. Will she be in your class next term?
Author Thatmixedotaku Posted December 23, 2015 Author Posted December 23, 2015 Yeah most likely. We have been in the similar classes since my first year..I'll have to wait till after summer for us to not see each other so often. Till then....well it will be hard.Thanks so much for the advice....really it's the indifference that hurts most , but like one poster on this site said "When you feel weak ,be strong,when you feel extra weak be extra strong" ...I'm taking that to heart
Author Thatmixedotaku Posted December 24, 2015 Author Posted December 24, 2015 Update ...so today i am leaving my room for gym and to my surprise...there she is. Turns out she was placed in the room opposite mine in residence . WHAT IS EVEN HAPPENING ...WHY ..i feel like all the progress i have made is about to go in the trash .
lolablue17 Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 Ok, trying to avoid her or minimizing yourself didn't help. Try another way. on one of your breaks between classes go and talk to her. Tell her that it isn't natural and healthy situation for you and probably for her to pretend that you don't know each other and ignoring each other. "Let's act like grown ups, treat each other as class friends, say hi to each other, and talk normally like other class mates. Do you agree? Ok, so hi, how are you today?"... I think that will resolve most of the problem.
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