JonClark Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 So let's name her Sally. Sally and I have dated on and off the past six months. We've recently stopped, but Sally reached out to me. We texted back and forth for a week, sometimes she would keep the convo going even when there was nothing to respond to. The following Saturday we both attended a party of a mutual friend. At that party, a girl I was with once was also attending. That same girl flirted with me a lot and generally showed heavy interest. It is worth mentioning I dumped that girl when I met Sally. Anyways, it was very weird to have Sally and that girl at the same party, talking to each other and complimenting each other. I was like "What the f...". Anyways, Sally suddenly seemed a bit off and indifferent towards me. We all left for a club later on in the evening and then she seemed to mock me at one point and generally acted very irritated. At one point, she made sure I saw her dancing with another dude. We all went back to the apartment after the club, so I decided to confront her and she exploded at me and we went into a room and spoke. I asked her what the deal was and she said "I have no feelings for you...". I then said "well, let's just end this completely then, once and for all, and stop seeing each other completely." She exploded and started yelling at me and we started to argue. I was very drunk at that point and don't remember too much. I went home and so did she. Problem was, I forgot my wallet in her purse... Next day we met up so I could get my wallet back and she was MAD AS ****. We argued and she said she thinks it would be best to stop seeing each other completely. She turned her back on me and left... I'm like WTF. What the hell is up with this girl? Girls, tell me why she would show me signs the week before and then be like this at the party?
lilmissjava Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 She wants you to chase her. let her keep walking because she's playing games. 1
Redhead14 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 So let's name her Sally. Sally and I have dated on and off the past six months. We've recently stopped, but Sally reached out to me. We texted back and forth for a week, sometimes she would keep the convo going even when there was nothing to respond to. The following Saturday we both attended a party of a mutual friend. At that party, a girl I was with once was also attending. That same girl flirted with me a lot and generally showed heavy interest. It is worth mentioning I dumped that girl when I met Sally. Anyways, it was very weird to have Sally and that girl at the same party, talking to each other and complimenting each other. I was like "What the f...". Anyways, Sally suddenly seemed a bit off and indifferent towards me. We all left for a club later on in the evening and then she seemed to mock me at one point and generally acted very irritated. At one point, she made sure I saw her dancing with another dude. We all went back to the apartment after the club, so I decided to confront her and she exploded at me and we went into a room and spoke. I asked her what the deal was and she said "I have no feelings for you...". I then said "well, let's just end this completely then, once and for all, and stop seeing each other completely." She exploded and started yelling at me and we started to argue. I was very drunk at that point and don't remember too much. I went home and so did she. Problem was, I forgot my wallet in her purse... Next day we met up so I could get my wallet back and she was MAD AS ****. We argued and she said she thinks it would be best to stop seeing each other completely. She turned her back on me and left... I'm like WTF. What the hell is up with this girl? Girls, tell me why she would show me signs the week before and then be like this at the party? It's been on and off, but more off than on. Don't be a MOR ON. She's an attention whore and a drama queen. Move on.
Author JonClark Posted December 23, 2015 Author Posted December 23, 2015 She wants you to chase her. let her keep walking because she's playing games. Then why would she tell me she has no feelings for me if she wanted me to chase her? I mean that only makes me give up. And what's the point of ending it if she wants me to chase???
anduina Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 Looks like she was jealous and was angry at you for either flirting back or being an oblivious guy and not blowing off the other girl. The girls chatting in a friendly manner would be that they're sizing up the competition. Then your girl tried to make you jealous in return and you didn't respond in a jealous manner which would have pissed her off which was why she got angry at you since you didn't show that you cared about her. The part that I'm uncertain about is whether she wants you to chase her since you don't remember the part while 'drunk as hell'. If I were to guess, I'd guess she was looking for an apology for the night before and when you didn't give her one while asking for your wallet back, this only served to spray gasoline on her anger.
Author JonClark Posted December 23, 2015 Author Posted December 23, 2015 Looks like she was jealous and was angry at you for either flirting back or being an oblivious guy and not blowing off the other girl. The girls chatting in a friendly manner would be that they're sizing up the competition. Then your girl tried to make you jealous in return and you didn't respond in a jealous manner which would have pissed her off which was why she got angry at you since you didn't show that you cared about her. The part that I'm uncertain about is whether she wants you to chase her since you don't remember the part while 'drunk as hell'. If I were to guess, I'd guess she was looking for an apology for the night before and when you didn't give her one while asking for your wallet back, this only served to spray gasoline on her anger. But why would she tell me she doesn't have feelings for me and tell me we should cut all contact?
brokengirl85 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 She's mad because you're probably giving her mixed signals. Try to be more upfront and let her know you like her and want to be with her. A woman that gets so mad is only because she is not getting what she wants from you. Try to think about what are you doing, she's not crazy.
anduina Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 But why would she tell me she doesn't have feelings for me and tell me we should cut all contact?Because you displayed no respect for her feelings when flirting with the ex and then, showing no jealousy or possessiveness when she was dancing with the other guy. These two spell a guy who doesn't care.
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