Jax13 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Hey everyone, Some of you probably read my story about my ex leaving me and then finding another guy right away to "be" with. A guy that nobody in my circle of friends has a good word to say about. Her family and friends also aren't to happy with this entire situation or him. Well last Monday, she texted me asking to talk about everything and pick up her stuff. She said that she feels awful and I kind of left it at that. I haven't seen or heard from her since. I went out and hung out with some of my friends this past weekend and felt good as each day seems to be getting a bit easier. I've even talked to some of our mutual friends about random stuff and everyone seems really friendly towards me. Now I still have her parents on Facebook simply because I do like them and they don't post much at all except the odd bible verse (they are quite religious). I know that her parents would do pretty much anything they could to get my ex to come back around and think about what she's throwing away with me. So I found it very odd when her dad posted on his wall a picture with the quote "Don't look for a partner who is eye candy. Look for a partner who is soul food". This is totally out of character for him to be posting about relationships at all so I'm assuming it has something to do with me and his daughter. I'm probably reading to far into this and all but it still makes me feel decent that her parents still hold out hope for us. It just feels nice that her family still loves me, even if she gave up on us. I have maintained the NC through 8 days now and I am focusing on myself and my hobbies. I have also taken up exercising daily. The time alone just gives me time to sort out my emotions and know exactly what I want if she ever does contact me again.
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Some days are easier than others, but it sounds like you are doing well.
Author Jax13 Posted December 24, 2015 Author Posted December 24, 2015 Was going through some stuff today and clearing out our old conversations so I wouldn't ever find them again. I saw a link to a video she sent me 8 months ago that I don't think I ever really got around to watching... Well I finally opened it and it was the most heart wrenching song I have listened to in a long time. All about how I make her a better person and we're perfect together... Here's the chorus: Who I am with you is who I really want to be You're so good for me And when I'm holdin' you, it feels like I've got the world in my hands Yeah, a better man is who I am with you I really shouldn't have looked at it because it brought up so many memories and how this is exactly how I feel now... Damn. and so close to Christmas too. I am still holding NC now and am doing alright. Some days are harder than others I guess.
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