Terrified...but I am going to give this a go

December 31, 2015

Here's my advice...Forget this girl..get your own house,get to the gym,don't play into small office bullsh*t. No one in that place is any better than you. You just CURRENTLY don't have your stuff together. You can change that! However you can't change people. Just do your work and make some plans for yourself.

January 1, 2016

A little off topic...but I have started looking for places to rent in the city online today.

It is a little exciting, but nerve wracking. I don't really know what I am doing to be honest.

I have a list of letting agents and I am just going to cold call them all and say what I am looking for and arrange some viewings after work.

I am not really sure what I am going to do in my free time once I have this place. I already just bum about watching films and football.

The gym is expensive, but I have my own weights and I like jogging.

Other than that I want to do something social.

January 1, 2016

A little off topic...but I have started looking for places to rent in the city online today.

It is a little exciting, but nerve wracking. I don't really know what I am doing to be honest.

I have a list of letting agents and I am just going to cold call them all and say what I am looking for and arrange some viewings after work.

I am not really sure what I am going to do in my free time once I have this place. I already just bum about watching films and football.

The gym is expensive, but I have my own weights and I like jogging.

Other than that I want to do something social.

A few things to consider for your search.

*Does the agent charge fees? Application fees, brokerage fees, etc.

*Does the landlord require Renter's Insurance?

*What is typical rent escalation? By how much does it go up every year?

*Do you have to use street parking and will you get a resident permit? Otherwise parking can be a b*tch

*Which of the big evil cable companies services the area and is DSL available?

*Is subletting a room permitted?

*Do they have strict guidelines for having a guest over? Can your friend crash for two weeks in the summer?

*Does the place rack up high heating bills? If there's drafty windows or big gaps under the doors then it won't retain heat.

*Are any of the utilities included?

*When sh*t breaks will they send someone to take care of it for you? Who exactly is that person?

January 2, 2016

I agree with the previous poster who says to forget this girl.

Seriously, if a girl flakes and do this hot-and-cold attitude, this shows immaturity and possibly one of those attention-whores - they just want you to like them and when you do, they brush you off. It's all about their egos. She doesn't sound socially refined anyway.

I agree you need to work on yourself first and foremost. Be happy about your life. You're still so young, men are like wine, the older the finer! You have so much to learn, so don't worry about your past.

Getting your own place is a good idea, so is making your own decisions in life. Even small steps will get your confidence going. Make plans for 2016, and stick to them.

Fitness is also important! When you exercise, hormones are being released, triggering good moods and overall happiness. Get into shape - be body-confident. With time and persistence, you will get toned and have a buff body - more girls will be attracted to you!

Once you've polished yourself, only then can you take the next step to date. In a mating dance, you need to love yourself first and know in complete confidence what you can bring to the table, before you try to find a dancing partner.

I wish you all the best for 2016!

January 4, 2016

I agree with the previous poster who says to forget this girl.

Seriously, if a girl flakes and do this hot-and-cold attitude, this shows immaturity and possibly one of those attention-whores - they just want you to like them and when you do, they brush you off. It's all about their egos. She doesn't sound socially refined anyway.

I agree you need to work on yourself first and foremost. Be happy about your life. You're still so young, men are like wine, the older the finer! You have so much to learn, so don't worry about your past.

Getting your own place is a good idea, so is making your own decisions in life. Even small steps will get your confidence going. Make plans for 2016, and stick to them.

Fitness is also important! When you exercise, hormones are being released, triggering good moods and overall happiness. Get into shape - be body-confident. With time and persistence, you will get toned and have a buff body - more girls will be attracted to you!

Once you've polished yourself, only then can you take the next step to date. In a mating dance, you need to love yourself first and know in complete confidence what you can bring to the table, before you try to find a dancing partner.

I wish you all the best for 2016!

I must say, I seem so much more comfortable now I have mentally written her off in 'that way'. Talking was a lot easier. She was laughing at all of my jokes today.

As 'bad' as it may sound, I am wondering if I just wanted to $crew her. I do find her really attractive and she was wearing this tight mid-cut top showing a cheeky bit of cleavage today. She is also well endowed in the chest area. Although I felt no specific urge to pursue her romantically, I did find my eyes wandering at points. After work I couldn't stop thinking about all the things I would like to do with her! But all of this makes me think that I am just horny and physically attracted to her.

We actually were alone for thirty minutes or so towards the end of the day. We both stayed behind to finish work. We small talked a bit, but were both trying to concentrate on our separate tasks...and I didn't feel like asking her out and didn't judge it to be the right situation. She did keep struggling with her work...I would get up and stand next to her as she sat and lean over to help. There was this one point where I pointed to something on her papers over her hand, she then moved hers and it brushed mine. I guess I am not used to women touching me...and it surprised me a bit, so my hand automatically pulled back. I am 97% certain that as she brushed me, she ever so quietly sighed/grunted. Considering the amount of tapping and nudging that was going on a couple of weeks ago...I did wonder, but I think I am again guilty of overanalyzing again and as I was discussing work, it was probably a reaction to that!

Still a fun day overall. Still written her off in my head.

Thank you for all the comments people.

Edited January 4, 2016 by Brapting

January 5, 2016

I am really sorry to spam my own thread...but why are women so weird and confusing?

I came into work today and just got on with my stuff again all morning. I could hear that the woman in question was getting distressed again with her work so around lunchtime, I said "why don't you take a break and do [piece of work] with me for a bit". I said it clearly and confidently...I was mainly thinking of being friendly and helping her feel more comfortable. As before, she latched onto this and said "yes". I did not bring it up again, mid afternoon she said "I am going to work on [piece of work] with [me]".

She came over and sat right next to me (but slightly behind, with my back a little to her). She was immediately relaxed and more bubbly than she had been and starting making pretty immature jokes, smiling a lot and trying to get me to laugh. I kind of smiled but mainly ignored them, partly because I didn't find them very funny and partly because I wanted to get on with the task. Then came a lot of tapping and nudging on my arm, mainly going "come on [me], lets do this". She kept doing it with some giggling, but she kept up with the teasing, to the point at which a colleague joked "are you bullying him" (we are in a small shared office with two other people). We carried on and I started tapping and nudging her back. I leant towards her quite a bit and our proximity was very close. I would look her straight in the face, straight into her eyes from a foot away, but from what I saw, she only very occasionally looked back and spent most of the time concentrating on the computer screen. At one point she spun her chair to look at our colleagues and leant right back, like almost leaning on me. At one point, I touched my pen on a silver bracelet that she was wearing and said "I like your thing". She spun it on her wrist and took it off and put it back on but then carried on with the work as if she hadn't heard it.

The kicker came when a colleague happened to call "do you go away on holiday [me]? Like have you been away this year?" and she very loudly said "yeah, do you have a life?" and burst out laughing. My colleagues looked uncomfortable. One sat very quiet, the person that had asked said "noooo..." and started to justify what she had meant. Luckily, I reacted by forcing a smile and lightly smacking the woman on her arm with a ruler (which made her giggle again). Needless to say, the comment did actually pi$$ me off a bit, as if she had taken it too far. But I ignored it.

Eventually, she just said "I am going to do [a piece of work]". I asked if she wanted to finish what we were doing and she just brushed me off and said "we'll do it tomorrow". She went back to her desk and steadfastly concentrated on her work without looking up at me once. Eventually I left to go home. I said "bye" to everyone and she just said "BYYEE" without looking up (even my other colleague could be bothered to look up and do the usual polite small talk/goodbyes that come at the end of the day).

Sorry to ramble on...but what is her problem? Is she trying to flirt with me, is she just trying to be friendly/banter? Is she just a rude and irritating person?

She seems to combine/alternate between over-friendliness and taking the pi$$.

Would be great to hear some female views.

Edited January 5, 2016 by Brapting

January 5, 2016

She was testing you. She wanted to see how confident you are. You got defensive and rattled so you didn't pass the test.

No biggie. If that happens again you look her in the eye, and you own being Brapting, and tell her with a big ol grin that you had a rad f***ing time doing nothing this vacation.

January 5, 2016

She was testing you. She wanted to see how confident you are. You got defensive and rattled so you didn't pass the test.

No biggie. If that happens again you look her in the eye, and you own being Brapting, and tell her with a big ol grin that you had a rad f***ing time doing nothing this vacation.

Lol. Well that was a dirty trick! I don't know if I was blatantly defensive and rattled. She was sat next to me, but didn't ask the initial question. She was just throwing out the diss. I felt uncomfortable, but forced out a smile and laugh and smacked her with the ruler. I didn't look at her as I did it...I continued to talk with the person asking and explained my last vacation (basically ignoring her).

I think that she was just taking the pi$$/trying to wind me up...although I cant understand why.

January 6, 2016

Just ask her out God Damnit! If you don't have the guts to in person email her or text her or do it on the dating site. Just get it over with.

January 6, 2016

Just ask her out God Damnit! If you don't have the guts to in person email her or text her or do it on the dating site. Just get it over with.

I admit I am nervous about this sort of thing...but my point is I find myself so bewildered and confused by her sometimes, I am a little put off.

Take today. I came in again with thoughts of maybe asking her out (in the back of my head). I mainly wanted to relax with her and just see how things went.

She came in really late and we were all working away. She walked past me and sat down. I didn't really acknowledge her much. Pretty soon a conversation was struck up and I starting talking about my experiences travelling. For once I spoke with confidence and expressed myself pretty well. She watched and chipped something into the conversation. I was kind of talking with another colleague, so I nodded and smiled and then spoke to the other older colleague (remember, I hadn't really paid her any attention by this point). I didn't really notice this at the time.

3...2...1...she seemed to go a bit crazy! She struck up a conversation with the colleagues about hot guys (film stars) and went on and on and on about it. It seemed out of character and she hasn't spoke like this before or even really mentioned the subject. It all felt a bit weird. Another female colleague joined in, but she continued to go on and on...well after people had lost interest. It all seemed so deliberate and at one point someone joked how she thought all the guys at our work was ugly, she said "yeah they are". The girls scoffed and giggled and one even said "what about [me]!"...I smirked and shook my head but continued to work and didn't even look up as they giggled. It then went silent as they finished giggling and she chipped in "yeah...even the young ones"...silence in the room. I said and did nothing and carried on working...but it felt like such a deliberate comment. Like it was aimed at me...and she was waiting to see how I would respond. But why?! Is she trying to put me off asking her out or something? Is she hinting for me to stay away?

Later in the day...some guy came in a made a comment about women and she got all annoyed about it after he left. I know it violates every rule of making friends and influencing people...but I couldn't hold my tongue...I burst out laughing, looked at her straight in the eye and said "says [you]!...who has been talking about hot guys all morning"...she kind of laughed and tried to justify herself. Weirdly enough, after this, we seemed to relax and get on well again, but she continued to make references to hot guys throughout the day which (whilst hiding my feelings) made me very uncomfortable.

At the end of the day...I said I was leaving and she said she would leave with me (which is a first). We walked very slowly to our a cars and she seemed to linger and wait as we said goodbye (which is another first). She even said "I will be in work around...o'clock tomorrow, ok" (and I ain't her boss). This would have been the perfect time to ask her...but I felt so exhausted by her again today...I just wanted to get away from her and spend some time to myself thinking things through.

Please, I am begging someone. Please help me understand what this was all about. She seemed to be acting bat $hit crazy at points today. I will ask her out when it feels right...I just want to understand all of this.

Edited January 6, 2016 by Brapting

January 6, 2016

You sound really insecure bruh. Who cares if she wants to talk about hot dudes? Many dudes are hotter than me. Many dudes are hotter than you. Its harmless banter and she's not even your gf.

I bet the part where you 'looked her in the eye and ______' caught her off guard in a good way. Made her respect you, even if the specifics of what you said were pretty dumb. Sometimes it matters less what we say and more how we say it.

Ask her out for drinks already. Don't make a big deal out of it just suggest you'd like to check out ____, and invite her to come with and argue about which celebrities are hot.

You're a big old klutz and she knows you like her, so if she says yes then she knows what she's signing up for. If she says no then you laugh it off (good call, gotta keep it professional in here!) and act like it never happened.

Remember at the end of the day if someone digs you its hard to screw up. If someone doesn't then there was nothing there to begin with.

January 6, 2016

You sound really insecure bruh. Who cares if she wants to talk about hot dudes? Many dudes are hotter than me. Many dudes are hotter than you. Its harmless banter and she's not even your gf.

I bet the part where you 'looked her in the eye and ______' caught her off guard in a good way. Made her respect you, even if the specifics of what you said were pretty dumb. Sometimes it matters less what we say and more how we say it.

Ask her out for drinks already. Don't make a big deal out of it just suggest you'd like to check out ____, and invite her to come with and argue about which celebrities are hot.

You're a big old klutz and she knows you like her, so if she says yes then she knows what she's signing up for. If she says no then you laugh it off (good call, gotta keep it professional in here!) and act like it never happened.

Remember at the end of the day if someone digs you its hard to screw up. If someone doesn't then there was nothing there to begin with.

Thanks of the encouragement dude.

I guess I am a little insecure at times. I guess it wouldn't hurt to pose the question.

I came in really trying to ignore her, chat a bit, but get on with my work professionally and confidently. I guess my question was really about what it was all about. She seemed so nervous and all over the place and completely out of character when she was talking about these hot guys. She has never even mentioned the subject before. I am 90 per cent sure that the comment about "young guys at work being ugly" was directed at me. The way she said it and the way she seemed to be waiting to see what would happen. I kind of thought that maybe she was making it clear that she wasn't interested in me (or anyone else at work). Or if she was trying to rattle me. It was all a bit surreal.

She seemed to go on and on about it...to the point where some of the girls stated that they were uncomfortable with it.

I guess I am just confused by the whole thing.

January 6, 2016

Look, it's a survival instinct in women to know when a guy is obsessing over her, because that is never good. She knows you're focused on her. So do others. And about the comments about unattractive guys at work, two things. One, it probably was for your benefit because they all know you're working yourself up over her and they want to keep you from doing something you'll both regret like ask her out. And two, they are mean girls for going about it in that way and that alone should put you off this woman.

January 6, 2016

You feel terrified...wait till you see female genitalia lol jk

In all seriousness, Your biggest problem is the fact that you two work together and see each other all the time. Besides that, I would have no issues.

January 6, 2016

a guy is obsessing over her

I am not sure if I agree with everything that you have said. But I agree with this.

$hit. I am spinning out of control a bit. Maybe I am seeing things that aren't there. I need to get her out of my head and just think about something else for a while. It is difficult working in the same small office as her and difficult to just block her out.

I don't think I am going to ask her. I just need to forget her in 'that' way.

January 6, 2016

Look, it's a survival instinct in women to know when a guy is obsessing over her, because that is never good. She knows you're focused on her. So do others. And about the comments about unattractive guys at work, two things. One, it probably was for your benefit because they all know you're working yourself up over her and they want to keep you from doing something you'll both regret like ask her out. And two, they are mean girls for going about it in that way and that alone should put you off this woman.

Why do you think him asking her out would be such a mistake?

-Its not like there's a friendship to endanger here.

-Its only as awkward as he makes it.

-The work situation sounds like it can only get better by him getting told no. Its not like he's introducing drama to the workplace, she can say no and put an end to drama that is there.

I'm pretty sure she's trying to get him to bugger off too, but he needs to learn not to be that annoying obsessive guy. It doesn't just happen overnight. Every guy learns it at some point he's just behind the 8-ball, that's all.

IMO getting turned down by this girl, and finding out he won't actually melt like the guy in the end of the Indiana Jones movie, can only be a good thing for him unless he handles it really badly.

January 6, 2016

Why do you think him asking her out would be such a mistake?
-Its not like there's a friendship to endanger here.
-Its only as awkward as he makes it.
-The work situation sounds like it can only get better by him getting told no. Its not like he's introducing drama to the workplace, she can say no and put an end to drama that is there.

I'm pretty sure she's trying to get him to bugger off too, but he needs to learn not to be that annoying obsessive guy. It doesn't just happen overnight. Every guy learns it at some point he's just behind the 8-ball, that's all.

IMO getting turned down by this girl, and finding out he won't actually melt like the guy in the end of the Indiana Jones movie, can only be a good thing for him unless he handles it really badly.

I can make it pretty awkward, trust me and do I really want that in my place of work? (somewhere that I cannot just walk away from).

Obviously it is hard to describe the ins and outs in a thread, so perhaps I am not really capturing it. I am maybe a virgin, insecure at times and a inexperienced with this sort of stuff. But I am not socially inept. I am often cracking jokes and banter in the office which people fine funny. I am introverted and quiet a lot the time, but I am very smiley and positive.

I am not sure how much the other girls in the office know. They certainly haven't expressed any indication, although I guess I wouldn't know. I am very hot and cold with the girl in question and I have yet to express any direct romantic interest...so I guess there is always that little bit of doubt.

A big thing in my head is that she wanted to actually walk with me to our cars today, which she has never done or suggested. She talked and actually lingered with me rather than legging it...but perhaps she was hoping that I would pop the question and she could blow me out and get it all over and done with!

But I guess it is what it is. I want to ignore her for the next few days, much like I did when she first came into the office. She can do her thing and I will do mine and we can get on with our separate work.

I am going to work on abandoning all thoughts of it now. For what it is worth...if she wasn't trying to deliberately put me off, she comes across as pretty irritating and immature most of the time...yes immature...and that's coming from me!

There will be other women in other settings.

January 6, 2016

I'm pretty sure she's trying to get him to bugger off too

Out of interest, what makes you think this?

I am genuinely interested to know. Has she given off any indications that you have spotted in what I have written?

Would like to know the indicators for future reference.

January 6, 2016

Also do attractive (but insecure) women ever neg?

January 7, 2016

Out of interest, what makes you think this?

I am genuinely interested to know. Has she given off any indications that you have spotted in what I have written?

Would like to know the indicators for future reference.

Because based on what you've told us, it sounds like you treat her differently than you treat other people. Trust me. Its noticeable. Like you said, you are quiet and introverted. You're less quiet with her. I bet you tend to focus on her when in a group. Maybe I'm wrong but its the impression I get.

People pick up on this stuff. The human brain registers so much about body language you don't even notice. We can detect facial expression changes in as little as 17 milliseconds for example.

This is why confident people project themselves so much better. When you're internally at peace and comfortable, all the hundreds of microscopic and uncontrollable but subliminal ways you express yourself reflect it. When you're a wreck deep down, all those subliminal signals are negative.

And people don't like to be treated like an exception. So its important to learn how to treat everyone the same, be they a crush or some other guy. This comes more naturally to extroverts than introverts, and imo its one of the big reasons why extroverts have an advantage in the dating world.

I am not sure how much the other girls in the office know. They certainly haven't expressed any indication, although I guess I wouldn't know. I am very hot and cold with the girl in question and I have yet to express any direct romantic interest...so I guess there is always that little bit of doubt.

A big thing in my head is that she wanted to actually walk with me to our cars today, which she has never done or suggested. She talked and actually lingered with me rather than legging it...but perhaps she was hoping that I would pop the question and she could blow me out and get it all over and done with!

But I guess it is what it is. I want to ignore her for the next few days, much like I did when she first came into the office. She can do her thing and I will do mine and we can get on with our separate work.

I am going to work on abandoning all thoughts of it now. For what it is worth...if she wasn't trying to deliberately put me off, she comes across as pretty irritating and immature most of the time...yes immature...and that's coming from me!

There will be other women in other settings.

She could have went with you to the car thinking she might want to apologize about something, and then wimped out. She might have wanted to get an opportunity to say 'no' when there was no one around. Maybe she wanted to chat. She might have done it for a lot of reasons. Stop worrying about it!

Don't be so quick to judge her for being immature. You're pretty immature too. Most people are. Part of being the big guy is not having to tear someone down because they aren't into you.

January 7, 2016

Because based on what you've told us, it sounds like you treat her differently than you treat other people. Trust me. Its noticeable. Like you said, you are quiet and introverted. You're less quiet with her. I bet you tend to focus on her when in a group. Maybe I'm wrong but its the impression I get.

People pick up on this stuff. The human brain registers so much about body language you don't even notice. We can detect facial expression changes in as little as 17 milliseconds for example.

This is why confident people project themselves so much better. When you're internally at peace and comfortable, all the hundreds of microscopic and uncontrollable but subliminal ways you express yourself reflect it. When you're a wreck deep down, all those subliminal signals are negative.

And people don't like to be treated like an exception. So its important to learn how to treat everyone the same, be they a crush or some other guy. This comes more naturally to extroverts than introverts, and imo its one of the big reasons why extroverts have an advantage in the dating world.

She could have went with you to the car thinking she might want to apologize about something, and then wimped out. She might have wanted to get an opportunity to say 'no' when there was no one around. Maybe she wanted to chat. She might have done it for a lot of reasons. Stop worrying about it!

Don't be so quick to judge her for being immature. You're pretty immature too. Most people are. Part of being the big guy is not having to tear someone down because they aren't into you.

As always I appreciate your comments, but I feel that you are basing a lot of this on a judgement on what you 'bet' I am like rather than what I am actually saying and reporting.

As I have said, I am not socially inept and I am savvy enough to know what would be interpreted as excessive and obvious attention. More so, I understand the power of mystery and saying very little. This is one of the advantages of being generally quiet and introverted. Whilst it is true that a woman will only really respond to direct confidence and an expression of interest. The flip side is also true...if the interest is at all reciprocated by the woman, she will always have a niggling doubt in the back of her mind as to whether the guy really 'likes her' if the interest is not directly expressed by him (irregardless of the his body language cues). This is what I mean by going hot and cold. Recently I have been alternating things and keeping her guessing.

Take today for example. I came in and had basically given up on the idea. She came in late and we did not really converse. She acted very sheepish and shy compared to yesterday (and this is what I was getting at when I was reporting on her craziness!) Today she seemed back in character. Pretty reserved. I was doing my own thing, chatting to my boss, typing away, and she repeatedly walked up to me and past me. At one point, I whispered can "you pass me the..." as she walked past. I kid you not, she went from seemingly walking past quietly...to approaching me right up close. She lean't over the desk face on to me, with her face one foot away, eye to eye, with the cutest beaming smile and she said "what was that?". I was surprised by its sudden-ness.

At points the discussions of yesterday (hot celebrity guys) were brought up by colleagues. When a male colleague brought it up, she kept saying "are you jealous?". Our female colleague jokingly mentioned to her that it wasn't really appropriate or professional chat, which she seemed to take on board and all talk of it pretty much ceased.

Later in the day, she kept beckoning me over to her desk to help her with work. She even looked at me, smiled and curled her finger over at one point. Each time I went over I played it very cool (partly because I had given up on her). At one point I pointed out that she had made a mistake and she laughed and rested her head on my arm for a few seconds as I stood next to her/lean't over her. She does not do this with anyone else.

At the end of the day, I left at the same time and deliberately waited for her to walk with her (i didn't care what my colleagues thought). She looked a bit nervous, but we were soon chatting away as we walked and we had a really nice chat. We lingered at the cars again as we said goodbye.

It was such a nice day. She was really cute and even if we are just colleagues/friends, I did enjoy my time with her.

Edited January 7, 2016 by Brapting

January 7, 2016

not having to tear someone down because they aren't into you.

..this couldn't be further than what I was trying to describe. The content of her chat was immature, it has nothing to do with my feelings for her. I am not so insecure that I can't separate the two.

For what it is worth, during her 'immaturity' a colleague actually said "how old are you?!"

January 8, 2016

..this couldn't be further than what I was trying to describe. The content of her chat was immature, it has nothing to do with my feelings for her. I am not so insecure that I can't separate the two.

For what it is worth, during her 'immaturity' a colleague actually said "how old are you?!"

Again, I don't know you. I'm just trying to read between lines. And that's two degrees of separation - you're trying to read her behavior and I'm trying to read your read of her behavior.

I'm sure she is immature, I'm just saying that I don't think you should judge her on that basis.

January 8, 2016

Again, I don't know you. I'm just trying to read between lines. And that's two degrees of separation - you're trying to read her behavior and I'm trying to read your read of her behavior.

I'm sure she is immature, I'm just saying that I don't think you should judge her on that basis.

I know. I am sorry for getting all pi$$y.

Things were really great today and I am certain that I clocked signs of her flirting...but she was still working when I was going to leave. She wasn't parked near me, so I just said goodbye and left. She looked up at me as I said it this time and I am certain that I saw her face 'drop'.

I guess the first big lesson is take the chance to do it 'face to face' when you have it.

Either way. I have enough of this. I cant carry on feeling this way. I just want to know now and for her to put me out of my misery so I can move on and focus on other things.

Sending her a message on OLD.

January 8, 2016

I know. I am sorry for getting all pi$$y.

Things were really great today and I am certain that I clocked signs of her flirting...but she was still working when I was going to leave. She wasn't parked near me, so I just said goodbye and left. She looked up at me as I said it this time and I am certain that I saw her face 'drop'.

I guess the first big lesson is take the chance to do it 'face to face' when you have it.

Either way. I have enough of this. I cant carry on feeling this way. I just want to know now and for her to put me out of my misery so I can move on and focus on other things.

Sending her a message on OLD.

Ahhh...why did I open with "you alright? tough day"

She has been online and seen it...and has now gone offline. Goddamn it.

I wish she would just hurry up and reply so I can drop the question and get this over with.

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