itsdinaah Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 I broke up with my ex 2 months ago because his communication with me sucked. I felt like he didn't care enough about me to keep in contact and he wasn't giving me what I wanted. Anyway I said I couldn't be his girlfriend until he figured out the importance of communication. I said we could be friends but only to be nice. Fast forward two months. We haven't been in contact since we broke up. Until a few days ago when he texted me asking how I was and that he missed me. I kept the conversation simple and answered with one word answers. He texted me again today sending a funny video like he did when we were together. What do you think he wants? Things didn't end horribly but I was deeply hurt by his carelessness towards me. He didn't know I was as angry as I was when we broke up. He's texting me now like nothing ever happened. (We were friends for a year before we dated).
ravfour4 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 It's blatantly obvious that he's putting himself back in your orbit and wants to try things out with you again. If you're afraid he hasn't changed, call him out on it and ask. Do you still like him? Would you want him back if he changed? If so, meet up with him to see if he's changed.
Author itsdinaah Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 We have so much history together so I think I would take him back if he sincerely changed. However, knowing him I don't think he will change. Right now I'm kind of just waiting to see what he says. I don't want to make myself too easy or too available to him like I did when we were dating.
frigginlost Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 We have so much history together so I think I would take him back if he sincerely changed. However, knowing him I don't think he will change. Right now I'm kind of just waiting to see what he says. I don't want to make myself too easy or too available to him like I did when we were dating. People don't change in two months... What meaningful steps has he taken to move in the direction of change? That would be my first question to him when he tells you he wants you back... because he is going to.
Author itsdinaah Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 People don't change in two months... I agree, that's why I'm so wary now. I haven't been hostile just not friendly. What meaningful steps has he taken to move in the direction of change? That would be my first question to him when he tells you he wants you back... because he is going to. I don't know how much he's changed yet. We haven't really talked since he texted two days ago. Do you think he wants me back or just wants our friendship back?
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