hannahsmith Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 (edited) I'm insanely jealous of my boyfriend's female best friend. I know that she has a crush on him and they dated for a very short time a few years ago. However, they are very close now and often do a few things together like meals in together. They have been close friends for a few years and we have only dated for a few months. I told him that I was jealous and felt insecure, not because she if female, but because I feel like there is more to it than friendship. He has assured me that he doesn't like her or see her that way and when she has told him that she likes him in the past he has been clear that he doesn't feel the same way. However, I see pictures of them together with their arms round each other and I can't handle it. I don't act like this with my male friends and although he thinks it it normal, because it isn't to me I am not coping well. My friend's have given me different advice, either red flags or trust him, but I think that this isn't healthy for a relationship. Should I just leave him? Also, she is very religious and wants to wait until marriage, whereas I am not. I can't help thinking that is also a factor Edited December 22, 2015 by hannahsmith
Glitters Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Leave. You have voiced your concern, uneasiness but nothing changed. This will get worse
VeveCakes Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 I would say no big deal - however she expressed she has interest in him? They should not remain friends then. There should not be a friendship when one person wants the other, not when that person has a significant other.
Author hannahsmith Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 Leave. You have voiced your concern, uneasiness but nothing changed. This will get worse I think it will get worse. I have never felt like this before, and I have loads of close male friends but I see more between them even if HE doesn't know or see it. I don't want to be a jealous, insecure person either
Author hannahsmith Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 I would say no big deal - however she expressed she has interest in him? They should not remain friends then. There should not be a friendship when one person wants the other, not when that person has a significant other. Yes she has said that she likes him a few times and I can see that she does too IRL. I also think it is a bit cruel on her too, but that's another topic lol.
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