theseaofred1982 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 We've been "friends" for 2 years and on and off none exclusive relationship for a year. When we're together we pretty much act like a couple, we're very intimate and we have shared a lot of personal details about our lives. She had mentioned in many occasions that she doesn't want to just jump into a relationship too quickly, but its been a year! But whenever we go our separate way, we seem to find our way back to each other. She recently confess her feelings for me, but she still don't want to be exclusive. She said she can ever make up her mind. I know she sees other men on the side which kind of irks me but I agreed to this. She wants to take our relationship slow but she's very open to see other people. Every time she meet someone new it never last longer than a month because every guy wants more from her. I'm just confused where I stand with this woman? Am I getting strung along? How do I even turn this around to make her want me more when she gets plenty offers on the daily basis?
jen1447 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Sounds like you're an insurance policy or a rainy day investment. Sorry but if you want commitment, you should look for someone capable of giving it. You can't really do anything to make ppl change who they fundamentally are, so no magic moves or words are gonna fix this for you.
io2iio Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Friends with Benefits is where you stand. You are basically her backup dude. She is looking for a better deal and if she cant find one she will get back to you. Its called as monkey branch swinging. You dont let go of one branch before you can catch another branch.
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