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Should I ask him out casually?


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So I'm a senior and I followed this sophomore in college (he goes to a university near our hometown and still lives at home) on insta first and he followed me back. Then on Saturday he friend requested me first (along with other ppl). Yesterday I decided to message him about how he likes the college and it went super well he usually replied right away to my messages after I sent them and we talked about the college and our majors. But I don't know what to say anymore to keep the convo going. We were talking about the cheating policy and how ridiculous it is because you can't work together & he just said "EE major." "They say that but you know, everyone still does lol" so what can I say to keep a convo going? I want to hangout with him over break but I'm afraid I'll scare him away or creep him out because I'm a HS senior while he's a college student... I don't want to seem desperate since we've never actually met in person before :( what should I say or do?

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Under the circumstances you describe I would not ask him out. It won't be well received because he's in college & you are not yet. Give it a day or two & see if he messages you. If he does, mention something you will be doing & see if he shows up. If you are going to party for NYE & can invite him, do that but do not ask him on a straight up date.

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just ask him if he's coming home for the holidays (doesn't matter if you already know or assume, play dumb). Or say did you say you were coming home for the holidays? Then say breezily we should hang out while you are home. Low pressure

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