loverage21 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 (edited) I have feelings for this girl I barely know. I am not "in love" but have strong feelings for her nonetheless and can't get her off my mind We dated shortly. Then I found out she loved a guy before me in a serious long term relationship (she was 14 and 15 years old at the time). There could of been potential but it drew a wedge between us because I couldn't get over it. The fact she can never forget him and will always have a really sweet spot for him. And she is a college freshman now and she goes to my college and I want to pursue her and invest myself in her but at the same time I am hesitant because she has loved before. Rekindled teen loves are the sweetest damn thing and she may feel that way deep down inside. I don't know guys just HELP ME OUT HERE!!! Edited January 13, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Removed link to picture of another person ~6
neowulf Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 What do you want to hear? You have two choices. You have feelings for her, you act on them and task the risk. Her past in the past. I've never understand those who struggle to deal with the fact people have history. We all have history. It's a side effect of LIVING LIFE. The only people who have no history, are people who were too scared / damaged to even try to have an experience in the first place. Either take a chance and live a little. Or.. accept she's just not for you and move on.
Author loverage21 Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 What do you want to hear? You have two choices. You have feelings for her, you act on them and task the risk. Her past in the past. I've never understand those who struggle to deal with the fact people have history. We all have history. It's a side effect of LIVING LIFE. The only people who have no history, are people who were too scared / damaged to even try to have an experience in the first place. Either take a chance and live a little. Or.. accept she's just not for you and move on. I just can't bear it. I just can't. I mean if she loved the guy as an adult, it would be different. But she loved him as a teenager. It will always stick to her because it was innocent love.
StBreton Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 The girl is adorable. Now make room in your heart for her...an innocent love. Pretend you have the memory of a young teenager whose mother has just told him to clean his room:laugh: (basically you have no memory ok? Go make it happen with with this girl...forget about her past!!) Obsess about the future the two of you can have instead of the past. Stop looking in the rear view mirror!!! Go for it OP .. so you can get off this forum:love: Though we'll miss you asking the same questions again and again and again and... 1
Author loverage21 Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 The girl is adorable. Now make room in your heart for her...an innocent love. Pretend you have the memory of a young teenager whose mother has just told him to clean his room:laugh: (basically you have no memory ok? Go make it happen with with this girl...forget about her past!!) Obsess about the future the two of you can have instead of the past. Stop looking in the rear view mirror!!! Go for it OP .. so you can get off this forum:love: Though we'll miss you asking the same questions again and again and again and... You really think she is that "adorable"? Honestly.
StBreton Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 You really think she is that "adorable"? Honestly. She's definitely adorable. You got this OP? Going for it?
Author loverage21 Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 (edited) She's definitely adorable. You got this OP? Going for it? Idk, I still can't put her baggage past me She is a virgin till marriage too. There is no taking her to bed anytime soon. Edited December 22, 2015 by loverage21
StBreton Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Idk, I still can't put her baggage past me Well OP...sounds like you have more to gain than lose. Your choice. What's the worst that could happen if you just went with it? And if the worst that could happen actually happened, you'd survive just fine...with a little help from the many posters on LS:) 1
Qboro90 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Now youre posting images of this girl without her approval on a public forum?! At least the trail of evidence will be clear. 6
SoulCat Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Then I found out she loved a guy before me in a serious long term relationship (she was 14 and 15 years old at the time). There could of been potential but it drew a wedge between us because I couldn't get over it. The fact she can never forget him and will always have a really sweet spot for him. And here we go again....same old same old as your previous posts. You have been told, advised and urged by many posters to drop this first/teenage love obsession you have, but you will just not listen. I really don't think we can help you here. And seriously, where do you get off posting pics of this girl here without her consent? That is a big fat no-no. 3
Author loverage21 Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 And here we go again....same old same old as your previous posts. You have been told, advised and urged by many posters to drop this first/teenage love obsession you have, but you will just not listen. I really don't think we can help you here. And seriously, where do you get off posting pics of this girl here without her consent? That is a big fat no-no. I want to invest myself in her and I want to have something with her but it hurts really really bad to know she loved for years like that and been serious with a guy in her teens
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