Star love Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Im feeling quite low lately, and need some advice. I met some new friends through work and we all really seemed to get along at first always having a laugh that sort of thing now I know with a big group of girls there's bound to be bickering and I shouldn't take things to heart so much. But I feel like I can always sense when something isn't right and people's behaviour changes, quite a lot of the time if I talk to family members about these things they say I am being sensitive, which I try my best to agree with. Anyways recently it's become more and more obvious that I'm not really wanted within the group of friends anymore I haven't shown that it's upset me or even acted like I'm phased but deep down I have started to doubt myself and wonder if it's just the way I am and maybe other girls just don't like me much. Although and I'm not just saying this i genuinely feel like whenever my friends need me il be there for them because I wouldn't like to be upset with no one to talk to, so why is it that most friends I've had tend to do the opposite and leave me feeling like this with no real explanation as to why ? It's getting to the point where I'm thinking of going for a new job but don't know whether Me giving up and missing out on opportunities just because of childish girls is really the answer. Sorry for the huge story !
basil67 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Im feeling quite low lately, and need some advice. I met some new friends through work and we all really seemed to get along at first always having a laugh that sort of thing now I know with a big group of girls there's bound to be bickering and I shouldn't take things to heart so much. But I feel like I can always sense when something isn't right and people's behaviour changes, quite a lot of the time if I talk to family members about these things they say I am being sensitive, which I try my best to agree with. Anyways recently it's become more and more obvious that I'm not really wanted within the group of friends anymore I haven't shown that it's upset me or even acted like I'm phased but deep down I have started to doubt myself and wonder if it's just the way I am and maybe other girls just don't like me much. Although and I'm not just saying this i genuinely feel like whenever my friends need me il be there for them because I wouldn't like to be upset with no one to talk to, so why is it that most friends I've had tend to do the opposite and leave me feeling like this with no real explanation as to why ? It's getting to the point where I'm thinking of going for a new job but don't know whether Me giving up and missing out on opportunities just because of childish girls is really the answer. Sorry for the huge story ! It's really hard to comment without knowing the kind of things these girls say which upsets you. But if you are being overly sensitive, perhaps they are picking up on that and don't like it. What kind of things are they saying/doing? Perhaps your feelings are normal.
Author Star love Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 well like I say we were all fine, up until we were out and a guy started talking to me who one of the girls liked, we only talked that's it. Then after that she started making jokes about me in the chat which I can take I had a laugh for a few days but it got to the point where I wasn't finding it funny anymore and said exactly that, now maybe since then they had thought what you said realised I was sensitive and didn't like it. Now since then it's just got worse and worse like I hardly talk in the chat and I don't feel as comfortable around them anymore, also two of them left the group and then another wrote 'new group' then wrong chat... Kind of indicates a new groups been made without me it all sounds very petty I know... But it still feels abit s**tty !
basil67 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 well like I say we were all fine, up until we were out and a guy started talking to me who one of the girls liked, we only talked that's it. Then after that she started making jokes about me in the chat which I can take I had a laugh for a few days but it got to the point where I wasn't finding it funny anymore and said exactly that, now maybe since then they had thought what you said realised I was sensitive and didn't like it. Now since then it's just got worse and worse like I hardly talk in the chat and I don't feel as comfortable around them anymore, also two of them left the group and then another wrote 'new group' then wrong chat... Kind of indicates a new groups been made without me it all sounds very petty I know... But it still feels abit s**tty ! I don't think you were being too sensitive. A bit of "joking" stops being funny if it's at your expense and it doesn't end quickly. They sound like a pack of b*tches. 1
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