adiamond Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 This guy I dated for about 2 weeks, he tried to get me to go on a date with him for like over a week and I had been busy so I didn't have the time. We went on 2 dates after my exams and it was fun, he seemed into me and he would message me everyday and tell me good morning and night. The last time we saw each other, he tried making a move and I told him that I wanted to wait and move at my own pace and he was totally cool with it. I told him I liked him and he told me the same. After that date and that convo, he was still really sweet and surprised me with a small gift. He was wanting to see me and wanting to make dates with me. I came home over the break to see my family for the next 3 weeks and we had been keeping in contact over text and planning to do things after I get back. I had only been home 3 days and the past 2 days, he had been ignoring my text messages and been kind of distant. I'm just a little confused. He asked me how my night went and I told him, then I asked him how his night went and he ignored my message for the past 24 hours now. What do you guys think?
Snakechammah Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 I'm not very fond of hot-and-cold guys... so my advice is to drop him. Let him text you from now onwards. If he can't be bothered to reply a simple text, he's not worth another minute of your time. I assume you are young. You have all the time in the world to find someone else. 2 weeks of dating isn't too long, you will be fine! All the best in finding someone else and do keep us posted!
truth_seeker Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 Maybe he's a jerk? Maybe he needed a break from texting you? A couple of month ago I was getting involved with this woman and she would text ALL DAY! I had to take a break as I was being suffocated. Well, we stopped talking to each other... but sometimes, need some space before you go cold completely on the person
angel.eyes Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 It's the Christmas season! And it's only been 24 hours! Most people are busy with family and holiday preparations. Family and friends travel from out of town. It's unreasonable to expect him to prioritize someone he's dated twice (who kept blowing him off BTW) over his family and friends. You certainly didn't make him a priority until it suited you and your schedule. You focused on school, and now you're focused on visiting family as opposed to sticking around and dating him. Nothing wrong with that. See how things go after the new year when you get back in town. If he's distant then, he's lost interest and you can move on at that point.
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