Jay875 Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 (edited) So I'm 25 she's 22 This situation is kind of complicated before I was dating this girl I was dating her friend 2 years before I met her me and that girl broke up because she had cheated on me now fast forward 2 years later her friend my now ex girlfriend strikes up a conversation with me on Facebook without knowing who I was I end up really liking this girl but I still didn't think a relationship would come out of it since she was friends with my ex now. My ex found out about this and it made her jealous she messages me I still had feelings for her so I told her I did and we talked for a little bit but I ended up telling her that I like her friend and it's not going to work out between us because of what happened before so a few days later I end up meeting her friend and from that day me and her became very serious about each other soon she becomes my girlfriend and I've never cheated on her she's the love of my life but she doesn't think so because the ex girlfriend I dated before her sent her a picture of the text that said I cared about her. I tried to explain to her that I had sent that before me and her started dating and she was now the only girl in my life and nothing would change that but I don't know if she believed that she still didn't want to leave me though now not to long after this something very bad happened to me I was sober but I got arrested for a DUI for reasons still unknown to me I was supposed to see her that night and let her know how much I care about her I never ended up getting charged with a DUI because I was clean in my test results. She however believes that I'm lying and she left me because she said I needed to get my life together I had a job but I wasn't in the best situation now I have a career because of the way events unfolded she believes that I'm a much worse person then I really am. It's been 11 months now it's her birthday today I want to know from a women's perspective if you think I should apologize, wish her happy birthday or wait to apologize another day or what? I can't stand her not thinking I never cared about her because that's so far from the truth. Also I want to know if I should tell her I still love her? Edited December 22, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
LilMama1097 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 From a woman's perspective. If you don't tell her you love her and reach out to her then she will think she's not even a thought in your mind and that you don't care about her. If she's worth the risk of possible rejection then take that chance and tell her how you feel! Do you see all of us on this forum posting about our exs not texting us and feeling like they don't give a crap about us and we think they probably moved on? That may be how she feels! You'll never know if you don't try!!
partycity Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 You should definitely tell her. How can you live if she doesn't know? Don't you want her back?
Snakechammah Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 It was very hard reading the entire thread because you don't have full stops in your sentences. Coming back to topic, yes, you should explain the situation to her. How can she make a proper judgement if she didn't know the truth (of your feelings)? But seriously, dude, you need to add full stops. Or Periods. Like this => . And spaces. It helps. You might get more response then too.
Stressed_26 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 If you think you have done something wrong then you should apologize. It is never too late, and speaks of your character to apologize. Please do it !
Author Jay875 Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 Thanks everyone for all of the support. I messaged her on Facebook last night and something unexpected happened she apologized to me for being a bad girlfriend and not being there when I needed her. She thanked me for admitting that I hurt her. I also told her I will always love her and She said that she's scared to say that she loves me again but that she cares allot about me. She also let me know that she hasn't dated anyone since me and has focused all her time on a job. She's scared to Persue this but I have some hope now. 1
Stressed_26 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Thanks everyone for all of the support. I messaged her on Facebook last night and something unexpected happened she apologized to me for being a bad girlfriend and not being there when I needed her. She thanked me for admitting that I hurt her. I also told her I will always love her and She said that she's scared to say that she loves me again but that she cares allot about me. She also let me know that she hasn't dated anyone since me and has focused all her time on a job. She's scared to Persue this but I have some hope now. Way to go !
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